It's *over*

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by gruvenmama420, Nov 26, 2005.

  1. YellowBellyHippy

    YellowBellyHippy Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Hey GM,

    I just wanna say that you will get through this and when its all done you w3ill come out wiser and stronger. Relationships are so much of a learning experience.

    And pssssht~ His damn loss! You are one great package! Next time you will get even a better catch!
     
  2. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    awwww, sweet gruven, you deserve so much better... you should be adored and worshipped, not ignored or pushed away.

    you are absolutely precious, a jewel, and any self-centered fucker who doesn't recognize this doesn't deserve your sweet ass anyway!!!!

    i know you feel very lonely right now, but you have all of your friends (and admirers!) here at the forums to get you through this tough time. *big hugz*
     
  3. Shadowfox426

    Shadowfox426 Member

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    The ones that you can see coming to an end and try to save but can't are the hardest. Just the other year I lost the one person that I had truly believed to be the one. I went through a really bad fight with depression but I have finally moved on. Time heals more than many believe.

    In the meantime

    :: hugs ::
     
  4. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    thanks girlies, and shadowfox. i've been told by alot of people that he didn't deserve me or treat me good enough, but i just ignored it, thinking its ok for me to be simple and not want anything. but i do have needs and he never supplied them (romanticism, love, admiration, sex)
     
  5. themahn

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    Feel 4 u!


    heavy stuff!

    But someone like you will only get it better...
     
  6. Nickmast

    Nickmast Member

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    Sounds like ur the only chick he has ever banged. He wants to fuck other women and experience things. I wouldnt even attempt being friends with him. It makes it alot harder to let go. Just brings up old feelings and thats not a good thing at all. Move on. Your better off.
     
  7. adrian nor

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    I'd advice you to temporarily stop doing drugs and booze. Get to know a lot of guys(and chicks?) and flirt a lot. Have fun!!

    And, I'm sorry to hear that it's over between you guys. I know it REALLY sucks, but believe me. You'll get over it!... Maybe after three days, maybe a week, maybe a month, but you WILL get over it if you want to.

    PS: Drugs don't work well for depressions! Friends and flirts do!!
     
  8. LANDCARS

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    the best way to get over a guy is to get under a new one.
     
  9. inbloom

    inbloom as the crow flies...

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    Wow, mama, I'm sorry I missed this post, until today. I'm SO sorry about everything that's been happening, and I hope you're okay. You're too beautiful and too sweet, to get treated like this. What an asshole. :(

    If you ever want to talk, by all means, I'm here for yah. IM me, sometime!

    Peace and Love,
    james
     
  10. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    i was. but thats nt his motive, he doesnt even wanna date other people right now he says. he doesnt wanna be in a relationship. i think i'll die if i dont remain friends with him, or maybe i'll suffer more if i do ;( i dunno
     
  11. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    aw thanks, thats so sweet of you. yea i'm a total emotional wreck. i saw Les Mis on broadway today and i was bawling when the song "on my own" was sung. i'm a total mess. i try to not think about it, but i cant help it. everything, every picture, song, story, word, reminds me of him. not to mention he smoked a bunch of my weed last week (mango kush to be exact) and didn't even tahnk me since he had none of his own. that ticked me off just a bit, considering he officially broke it off later that night
     
  12. Shadowfox426

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    Staying firends doesn't ever seem to work out from people I have observed as well as myself. The few that try always seem on end when around eachother and it just led to them not speaking to eachother.

    Never had any weed myself, but still that is kinda messed up lol.
     
  13. inbloom

    inbloom as the crow flies...

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    Mama...you need to come stay with me!!! Hehehehe, I'll treat you right. ;)

    Much Love to you, you beautiful thing, you. :)

    MWAH!
     
  14. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    aww, you dont know how much i'd take you up on that offer :D thanks
     
  15. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    So how's the sexy gruven doing today/tonight? :)
     
  16. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    not great. i want to see him tonight but i'm hesitant about it just being him and i
     
  17. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Awwww....

    Times like this, I wish I was in your neighbourhood....
     
  18. heron

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    Hey sweet jam....i can be your "just like me"

    we can be hairy and earthy together, and
    i come with another to love =)

    aside from about 150 pounds and a beard, im
    just like you =)
     
  19. inbloom

    inbloom as the crow flies...

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    Heheee!!! I'd LOVE for you to come visit me!! Hehehehe! :D

    My heart's always open to you, sweetheart. Like I said, message me ANYTIME. In fact, I would love for you to MSN me, or something. I only have MSN right now, cuz that's what all the cool kids have. Heheh.

    But, I'd love to talk to you, sometime. I've just thought you're so cool, for awhile now, and I'd love to get to know you better. :)

    I hope everything is okay, and that you're well. Take care, sweetie.

    Love and Light,
    James
     
  20. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    aww of course :D i like papas with beards and a little chub (used to my bf i guess ;x )
     

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