Its Not Wrong to Beat Your Wife

OK everyone let's stick our heads in the sand and pretend we live in a perfect world.
Well no, unfortunatley there are wife beaters, children abusers and people with a stuffed view on how a relationship should work but to just ignore the issues altogether is not a good thing either.
This thread is good in that it makes us focus on our own values and the sad thing to a certain extend liam is right in that there are a lot of blokes (and sheilas) who would like to solve their problems with violence. Then they can teach their children to solve problems with violence and when these kids become the president of the USA they can wage holy war.
I would hazard a guess and say that if liam was asked how to resolve the conflict in the middle east his answer would be to drop a big nuclear bomb on the lot and steal the oil. Simple people = simple solutions (which don't fucken well work in the long run)

 

Ohh another thing, liams arguement is that the wife should be beaten when she needs it, so how come no one has voted for the "only when she needs it" section of the poll.
This person is obviously a very lonely woman hater who wants to encourage others to do what he can't because no woman has ever hung around long enough for liam to test his twisted theories.
Dream on creep features, it takes a real man to love a real woman and you just don't cut it.
Might I suggest you stick to jerking off to internet porn (guess your prefernce is for stuff where woman are tied up and hurt, go on you can tell me all about it).

 

you're an arrogant and ignorant jerk. didn't your mother teach you anything?

 

Instead of ridiculing me for being violent (which I am most certainly not!) have you re-read your replies to this post? 90% of you have all threatened me with violence or wished it upon me. Who is the violent one now? As I said before, I am not violent to my wife but i do believe in meeting out punishment for misbehaviour.

 

Liam, PLEASE help yourself and your partner by seeking professional help.
No one here has expressed hateful thoughts, but please don't turn infect this forum with such poisonous opinions.
They are caring and compassionate people here.

This is not the place for you.
You should be asking a therapist to heal you.
When you are helped, then come back and be nurtured by their love and friendship.
Get help now, PLEASE !

 

I realise that the people who use this forum are compassionate caring people, but how quickly they turn to threats and name calling as soon as a subject is raised that they find doesn't conform to their views. Personally I think they should be ashamed of themselves.
I'm not advocating wife beating as a pleasurable experience but as a neccessary part of married life. The YES vote does not reflect the number of men who agree with me so far, but i'm confident that it will.

 

People are threatening violence against you, cause wife beaters are despised as much as paedophiles! Real men would pay to get their hands on someone like you, Wife beaters are cowards who deserve to endure the same punishment that they dish out! There's nothing big or brave about it.

However, I haven't threatened you nor called you names, I just wish you will get help for your problems and issues, for your wifes sake, I really feel for her. You've taken her freedom away.

Btw, please don't expect your poll to ever swing in your favor cause it won't and that should tell you everything there is to tell you over this topic! Men used to club their women over the head back in the caveman days, it's barbaric!

It takes a big man, to admit he's wrong and needs help, just think about what people are telling you here and make the right decision and speak to a professional and get the help you seriously need.

Just think about it.

Rationality is the key!

 

ur an idiot , u are whats wrong with the world. People like you who meet nice women and fucking do this shit. Why get fucking married if u dont love your partner marriage is a bond between to souls even though i dont belive in religion mumbo jumbo its all a bunch of crap... but dude like wtf!!!!

If i ever met a women i loved alot and wanted to marrie , i would never ever try to hurt her i would treat her like my queen.

Your dumb , You shoudnt even have the right to be around women.

 

Those were the days when women new how to behave. Don't you realise that when your wife is in a public place she is representing her husband? Inapropriate behaviour must be stamped out and a lesson taught. It's for her own good in the long run. What state would the world be in if we allowed our women to do what they like and go unpunished? Anarchy would run rampant.Look how arrogant women are these days compaired to 40 years ago when a woman was a proper wife. Don't you see that women who have gained positions of power are now laying down the law to men! I just hope that men wake up and realise what is happening and sort this problem out NOW!.. Do you guys out there really want to be taking orders from women for the rest of your lives?

 

The women you are talking about are different nowadays, but it's up to you to use your brain to talk over issues with her. It's like I say, if she's promiscuous then it's cause YOU are lacking something, work on whatever you're lacking. Women don't cheat if they're treated right, and that's a FACT!

If she really "misbehaves" as you put it, in other ways, then you should blame yourself for choosing her, my own personal view is that people marry to soon these days and don't take the appropriate time to really get to know their partner. You chose her and if you don't like her natural instincts then divorce her and find someone that's compatible. You're making a lot of basic errors.

 

Divorce is the easy way out. I find it distasteful to just get rid of someone just because you havn't been getting along. Marriage is taken much to lightly these days and divorce is rife. When you marry someone i believe you belong to each other for life.
How can you just cast people aside when a half decent beating will put things back on track?

 

Are you honestly telling me that a "half decent beating" is tasteful?

Do you have kids with her?

 

Obey is no longer in the vows, and hasn't been in a long time.

I'm going to go over to Consumer and see if the same thread was started by the same person. THIS is a Guidline Infraction.

We'll see.

 

I dont understand if your married to someone you dont love ... then why? If you are beating ur wife , dont u realize its not love? she doesnt love you shes just forced to stay with you... If i ever have a wife i want to know she loves me , not is forced and "tied" down to me.

 

Ok, Immagine the following scenarios:
1.Your wife has been with another man behind your back. She comes home and kisses you as if everything is normal. Who knows where her mouth has been?

2. You married a beautiful woman but now she's got got what she wanted and got you down the aisle she doesn't have to try anymore so she gets fat and lays around the house all day. The home that you've built up for years is being destroyed.

3. Your families are all together at a dinner party and she gets drunk and pisses herself and calls you names and makes a fool of you in front of her parents and yours.

4.Answer honestly if you would chastise her for any of these situations.

5. Now vote in the poll.

 

Maggie, I'm new to the forum and didn't realise that posting twice was a guidline infraction. Please accept my apologies.

 

Dude , you can talk to her normally ... personaly me as a i child i dont learn anything when someone yells at me.

You talk to your wife ,

liam7 , You married your wife becasue you loved her , or becasue of her body?

If so then you will care about number (2) if you really love her then it doesnt matter about her physical appearence, even though there is two things in a relasionship , physical and emotional ... you can always talk to her about her problem and if she loves you and ur nice to her then i bet you she will work and fix her problem.


Its the same thing with men ! If you are an idiot your wife doesnt beat you she talks to you.


If your wife cheats on u or vise versa , you can always get a divorce ... my x girl friend has cheated on me ... it hurt me alot , but i never hit her ...becasue one day she will realize she made a mistake.

Liam7 u said that you belive divorce is bad .. now lets think if it was the other way around and your wife beat you? What would you do?! Lets say you where not physically stronger , and your wife was beating you... ( it happends ) What would you do? just take it , i think not! Do you think its fair? NO! so why should you wife take that from you , what gives you the right to hurt your wife...ever... no matter what she did!


Your lucky enough that you have a wife , why not treat her good .... marriage is built on love , not orders.

 

I would be more impressed, Liam, if you weren't using a Proxy IP. If you are a big strong man, then let us know who you are. Okay?

We will find out if you are a forum member under an other name, which is what I suspect. It won't take long.

I am not banning now, because of the lack of Guidline Infractions. But, I am keeping an eye on this thread, as are the other Mods.

People, you have a right to argue with this man, but, really, NOT feeding the Trolls would be a better idea.

I'm going to leave this thread as is, as long as Guidlines are followed. As much as I vehemnetly disagree with the OP, that isn't a reason to ban someone, or delete a thread.

I hope y'all understand. This IS a free speech forum.

Let the chips fall where they may.

 

I certainly wouldn't beat her for those reasons!

My answers.

1. Work on the real reasons why she cheated.

2. (This is an easy one) If she has let herself go, then encourage her positively to get fit. Go out jogging with her, join a gym together, it's fun to work out with your woman. A husband and wife are supposed to be a team, don't let the team down by smashing her face in for dropping the ball.

3. Talk to her beforehand and let her know that the family are coming over and to exercise a little decorum. If she's drinking heavily then there's some other issue there why she's abusing alcohol. Moderate how much she drinks, without the violence.

4. There's always another option to violence, but you'll have to be prepared to use your brain.

5. I've already voted against you and you can't vote twice, sorry no going back. (not that I would)

 

I agree with Anaconda man.