It turns wife on, so I do it for her.

Several years ago, we had a next-door neighbor who had a major social disorder. He was in his late forties, worked from home, and hardly ever went out. We also noticed no one ever came to visit, either. We would see him outside doing yard work very early in the morning once a week.

My wife loves to work outdoors and is constantly engaging in various landscaping projects. She was planting a couple of dozen different types of flowers a few feet from a window on his house one morning. After a while she came to me and told me our neighbor began talking to her from his window while she was working. He let her know how much he liked her outfit. I said her little bikini top and tiny shorts drew him out.

This went on for a few weeks. At dinner one night, she explained to me how bad she felt for him - no friends, no dates, no visitors. It was during this time we were exploring her desire to be tied up and blindfolded. I bought restraints and a blindfold so we could try it at home. A couple of weeks later she asked if I would take her shopping for a few more items. She bought nipple clamps, an ankle bar, a choker & chain, new wrist cuffs, better restraints with a body harness, and new vibrator. I couldn't wait to get home. As excited as I was, she said I had to wait a couple of days. When the time came, she went out on our back patio and told me to come out in a few minutes and bring everything along with her new vibrator. When I did, she was standing beside her lounge chair that was now facing our neighbors backyard and not visible from the street. I immediately began to get excited. She then instructed me to blindfold her, slowly remove all her clothes, attach the ankle bar at its widest, and then attach the restraints and nipple clamps.

I placed the blindfold on her and then began taking off her clothes. We both heard a door close and I saw our neighbor walk out to the fence separating our properties. I told my wife he was watching and was about 15 feet from her. She smiled and told me she was his date and I needed to begin. The lounger was set where her head and back were up a little higher. I was to explore her body with my hands and then use the vibrator where he could see where I was placing it.

I did everything she asked and this turned out to be the first of many more 'dates' she enjoyed with our neighbor. He never wanted to be physically engaged with her.....but spent many an afternoon and evening over a three year period watching her.

 

Wife and I have enjoyed a variety of sexual kinky things that we've always talked about.

Roleplay, ageplay, toys, restraints, pegging, golden shower, adult theater, CD, public, voyeur

We've always enjoyed everything we've done; maybe some things ove enjoyed more than her but she was still happy

 

Yes I think I would be up for anything she wanted.

 

We would never do anything bad to each other, or force the other to do something they didn't want.
After having sex with a guy at a party one night. She wanted to meet him again, and me go along, and make it a mfm threesome. I didn't really like the idea, but she had watched and joined me with other women a couple of times. During the threesome she requested a couple of things. No. 1 she wanted me to hold his member and guide it in her. No.2 while 69 her on top she wanted me to lick her clit while he did her doggy. I just got out of line of fire before he shot his load. She knew I didn't want anything to do with another man, and never asked again.
The thing I really hated was her wanting me to expose myself in public. Like walking to the ice machine in the hotel naked. Or letting my dick hang out of my swim trunks, and walking past a couple of older women, at a public beach. And wearing speedo swim trunks she brought for me. Although not super well endowed, my bulge was very obvious. She never minded flashing, or exposing herself, I tried to tell her it was a lot different for a man.

 

Yes, we take each other's advice. For example, my partner is an extremely sexually energetic person, he normally have sex twice a day (avg) and masturbate several times a day. Each time i need to spend at least 15 minutes on oral sex. So I suggest him to use male masturbator, it is a damn effective toy when he want oral, out of town, or too sore to have more sex that day. Recently I gave him one of Lovebirdvibe's masturbator called Winks as a birthday gift, he loves it!

 

My lovely is mostly what I'd lazily refer to as 'vanilla'. She isn't at all interested in 'trying new things' particularly in the matters of sexual extravaganza. However, there have been a number of times while at party like gatherings with friends, acquaintances and even strangers. These gatherings usually involved a jacuzzi or hot tub or a lake. No problem getting naked in the water where she was and is very comfortable. The good things is that led to her being comfortable (and actually looking forward to it) at nude beaches. She enjoys those ventures more than beaches loaded with textiles. Has she engaged with others while enjoying the jacuzzi or hot tubs? Who knows what goes on underwater and she isn't or hasn't been one to do and then talk about it. So, I live in a shroud of mystery and I don't mind it at all.

 

Well I would be up to try most things. Everything except male on male stuff I’m not into men

 

As a lot of men here I would do almost anything my wife wanted. She is pretty vanilla (as others wives are from what I have read) so not much of a chance, but I have told her I would try anything she wanted (MFM, FMF, her with another man, etc...). The only thing I don't think I could do would be tied up.

 

I'm open to "some version" of pretty much anything. BDSM is probably the thing I'd be least likely to find a happy middle ground depending on how important it was for that person to get into real domination. I have no issue being assertive and aggressive during sex. But once clothes and various equipment come into play, I wouldn't have fun. I don't need to carry around luggage in order to have sex. LOL.

Only two things were ever requested that I couldn't do. One was eat a woman's ass and that's still on my "sorry but I can't" list. Second was the first woman who ever asked me to choke her. I'd only JUST learned that choking was becoming a more common part of sex for younger generations and

1) Although I knew it was being requested, it felt too "rape-y" at the time and
2) I thought you really had to actually choke the person and asphyxiate them.

At first I told her I was sorry but that was the one thing I wouldn't feel comfortable with. But I really did feel bad not being able to give her something she wanted. So I tried just holding her throat forcefully but without any actual pressure. But when I saw the look on her face was the exact same as a woman truly being choked and the utterly convincing facial expression of fear, it shook me to my core and I whipped my hand away from her.

Now, I've broadened my horizons and also understand that the "forceful holding without pressure" is typically how the choking thing is done. So, I'd be fine with it now but no one's asked since.

 

Same here I would love to try different things but my wife is also vanilla.

 

:-(

 

It’s nice when your spouse is on board to trying new things.

 

My wife treats me good with sex but she doesn’t like trying new things.

 

Totally agree Linzee!!

 

Well, take the lead and introduce her some! Communication!!! ;-)