Is your wife or gf into M/M bi play and encourages you to get involved, as long as she can be a part of it? If it weren't for my wife, I doubt I would have even ventured into bi fun.Her enthusiasm and encouragement has opened up a new world of sexual excitement in Both of our lives. If I were to want to fool around with other women, she would not be pleased at all, however watching me recieve a bj from our friend gets her all worked up. She almost begged me to return the favor to him. When I did, she got so worked up, she fucked me with her strapon until the sun came up. I never would have imagined her reactions would be so intense. Does your wife know and encourage you?
Yes! Several years ago my wife told me that she sometimes thinks about women while masturbating. Mind blowing sex ensued! Took me 6 months but finally took up the courage to tell her I sometimes thought about men. More mind blowing sex! We fantasized more about bi sex for both of us and she encouraged me to get a gay massage if I wanted. I also told her about a Jack off club in Seattle, prior to my visit there and she encouraged me to go. A few years ago I started talking to a guy on a swing web site and she encouraged me to meet with him and she enjoyed watching the video I had him make of me sucking him off. I have been leaning more and more gay over the last several years and my wife loves it. I am probably 95% or more at this stage. I find women attractive but no longer interested in pussy (my wife prefers it in the ass). We are both free to fuck either sex when we want to. Working on my weight issues right now and then hoping to get a gay or bi lover. She wants to watch me suck cock and get fucked in the ass.
My wife and I have been with another guy in the past. It was amazing to have a guy suck my cock while she sucked his. It’s been a while though. Not sure where she stands now. Would love to though.
An ex-girlfriend used to get really hot watching me suck a cock. She waited until I got him close then sucked me. When he cum, so did I and she and I kissed to share the two loads.
My wife and I have a bi-couple we share our lives with. My wife loves watching me suck cock and taking his cock up my ass. She really enjoys the two of us sucking his cock together. I was orally bisexual when we met and told her early on. She couldn't believe it when I told her but replied "Now that I'd like to see", you don't seem to me to be a guy that sucks other guys dicks. Yes babe, I have, I do, and have a bud I can show you on if he's ok with you watching. He was ok with it, I sucked him, he sucked me, and she was really turned on and now we have a bisexual couple we share our lives with. We now consider me to be bisexual since I gave him my ass if that's how it works. I enjoy having sex with both men and women and to have both available in a trusting four way relationship is something I never dreamed I would ever have.
So I’ve been out as bi for almost 4 years now and whilst our sex life has got more adventurous between us she still hasn’t opened up or shown any enthusiasm towards inviting others into the bedroom. How did it happen for you guys? Thanks
I'm "out" to myself, my wife, readers here, and the couple we share our lives and sexuality with. I see no beneficial reason to shout it from a mountain top. It's nobody else's business and I refuse to become associated with the LGBTQXYZ organization because I still believe they bring about more problems then they solve. Individual sexual orientation IMO is at it's highest acceptance level EVER so why do these people continue to demand more and more and more...it's quite sickening to me personally. Yes I am very much happier that my wife knows and that she totally accepts me for who I am. With her knowing and participating there is a sense of liberation because I can and do express my sexuality more openly to her, him, and his wife.
While not "out" or a member of any of the homo/gay organizations, I support their effort. I remember days of "queer bashing" where gay men were attacked and beaten, sometimes to death because of their orientation. And the bias against lesbians. I am glad those brave people sacrificed so those of us who choose to remain anonymous can do so with some feeling of security.
While it can have that element of “shout from the rooftops” quality you described, I think it’s ultimate goal is inclusiveness, and I think it’s working. I’m shocked when I talk to my three pre teen boys how are they are of gay people, and how open they are to accept them as a result of a different generation who consider them ‘normal’. I think all of my boys are straight but am happy to know that if they weren’t that they automatically think it’s normal to be bi/gay.
My answer would have to be.... Yes, very accepting. Very supporting of others. But probably not involving me.
I wish. When we were first dating my wife was very into sex. It was the first time I openly shared my experience with another man hoping she would be into MMF and we could play with another man and share a hard throbbing cock. She wasn't into it and I had to back-peddle a little bit. As the years have gone by we've talked about it a little more a few times. I think she knows that I am into both men and women, but she does not want to do anything about it. I love my wife, so that's that, but I wish I could be 100% open about it and that she would at least indulge the fantasies a bit.
When you say “indulge your fantasies a bit” what would you like her to do? Just fantasize along with you or actually have another man enter the equation? In my case, I have to straddle this subject carefully. She likes the idea of me being with another guy quite a bit. In fantasy. In reality I’m not sure if or when she’ll be down with that again. But it was fun in the past. And we still fantasize about it.
My wife enjoys watching MMF bisexual porn with me. She really likes watching the guys suck cock and fucking each other. When it comes to my bisexuality though, she is very"iffy" about it. There are times she seems really turned on by it, and other times when she seems to think I'm "just gay." She's also bisexual, and I've always been supportive and encouraging of her to act on her needs and desires, so I'm not sure why my bisexuality bothers her so much sometimes. She knows I'm a bi bottom with guys (and that I have a feminine/sissy side, which I've only shown her. I've never acted like a feminine sissy with guys before), so maybe she views me being a bottom with guys as being less "manly and masculine" than she likes
