BJ of course, that's why I love them so much. Penetration is more about a connection and making it happen for her first without losing it so you learn to turn it off just to last. With a BJ, it's all about my sensation - what's not to like about suction, a swirly tongue and being warm and wet....and the end product....
But most women say, don't dive for the goal line 'til about ten minutes after some other tongue work down there. They need time to anticipate.
Basically, yes, but it'd be nice if we could get some female lady-type people to offer an opinion, or even some of the guys on here's ladies to contribute.
I'm very sensitive when the head of my penis is being worked on, my girlfriend will get the benefit from this when I penetrate her
A good blowjob feels better than penetration to me and blowing my wad in a wanting mouth feels absolutely amazing.
Last night. The weekly emptying. Wife slides down. Begins handling. Then the mouth descends. "Baby you're staying on the head.". No response. "Baby, you know what..." All I get is, "Ummm?". 15 sec later I'm going off. I feel her shaking. She's LAUGHING with me cumming in her mouth! I finally had to make her let go! And she's still laughing! "I'm glad I'm so entertaining for you, you witch.". "Shut up and go to sleep." Who is this woman, and what have they done with my wife?
Since she had such fun, and you want her to be happy, maybe it can be a twice weekly emptying......well, you know, solely for her entertainment, of course. .
It depends on the mood I’m in. If I’m really horny then when she gives the bj and mixes up what she does like lick suck deep throat then I can blow in minutes. But if I just want to enjoy the actions she’s doing then the bj can be a long enjoyful blissful time. As for penetration depends on wether I’m using a condom or not. If I’m using a condom the sensations are filled down so I last longer. When I go bareback I have to try and keep myself from cumming because it just feels to damb good
Blowjobs with a little hand action is the best. Unless the woman is very tight or knows how to use her muscles, and ride really hard. I get very sensitive to blowjobs
I like some hand action first as well. If we're undressing each other and she gets my cock out while I'm still getting her clothes off, a nice stroking and some tongue teasing helps set the stage. And if I'm licking her nipples and playing with her body, it's always nice if she's playing with my cock. If I start dribbling some pre-cum and that is what first hits her tongue as she starts sucking...all the better.
Most of the time it’s from blowjobs but I had some who did it just right and I could get extended pleasure post ejaculation at time with vagina it gets so sensitive I can’t keep going