is this too much info

if thats wat u think
its cool
we got diff views
again i believe in free loveeace:
so its all good....

 

Dont lie to him... and you dont have to bring up the past lies if you dont want to... but i dont think you should keep "secretly" playing with his emotions... you got 4 other lovers by the way... maybe youll end up keeping one'a them for even longer than this guy?

 

The way you get loose is if you lose muscle tone or sustain an injury. You can't stretch it out. If stretching a muscle made it stay stretched, yogis would be saggy.

The vagina, as I bet you know, is meant to stretch wide enough for a baby to pass through, and then be ready for normal use within 6 months.

 

Tell him, if he asks. It'll teach him a great lesson.
Lying is not very loving. But don't be afraid to tell him about your views on free love either.

If you tell him, he probably won't want to be with you anymore, and might well resent you.

 

passin a baby thru there scares me
i saw a video wen i was in high skool my freshman year
i swore to never have kids that day
it looks toooooo fuckin painful
i dnt plan on havin children anytime soon maybe way later like 10 15 yrs from now...and thats a maybe

i do my daily kegel execises

i dont think ill get loose
its not like im fuckin everyday anyways
i have my lovers
but i just have sex with one of them once in a week (we make up for a whole weeks sex in that one day )

(if its a fuck fest its a diff story..we rent a room for 48 hours stayin there fuckin the whole time and not coming out till its time to check out..but still ive only done that like 3 times in a years time)

 

I am a gemini =P

 

Wawawawa what? LOL, I think thats just something mummy has brainwashed into you


sg girl, go for it, as the saying goes, practice makes perfect

 

Don't back off, SG! Nobody has the right to an opinion about what you do with your body, so long as you're single and uncommitted.

Shame is contagious, and people WILL try to infect you with it, and no condom's going to stop them.

I think there's a current of opinion which wishes that you would be completely honest and forthright with each of your lovers. Alright, I can endorse that. But that only indirectly concerns your sexual behavior. Mostly, it concerns how you treat people-- hopefully, these lovers of yours are also friends.

I know there are tons of guys who really wouldn't care, because they're getting their good thing, and you're getting yours. And you don't ask about what else they've got going, and they shouldn't ask about you. That's only fair. There's no ownership.

But I'll end the post with my favorite quote from the Marquis de Sade:

Fuck, Eugenie, fuck, my angel; your body is your own, yours alone; in all the world there is but yourself who has the right to enjoy it as you see fit.


Eugenie was de Sade's daughter's name (though this quote is from a fiction work, "Philosophy in the Bedroom.") Really, with proper teaching about precautions preceeding it, it seems appropriate for any parent to tell his or her daughter. It's still a source of confusion for some people.

 

yeah my lovers r also friends of mine
n thanx for the advice

and i like that quote.....

 

i think ive got that practice makes perfect down
my lovers have always complimented me on my oral skillz

 

i like the feedback keep it cumming :hurray:

 

I've always been completely honest with my lovers. And you know what? My life is not like a soap opera!

 

Alright, so, SG, do all your lovers know about each other?

Do you think they should?

I can really see both sides on this issue. It does affect them, but then again, as long as you're not lying to them, they're all still making as informed a decision as they care to make. And yeah, I'm trying not to come right out and make a moral judgement, because I'm not fit to start throwing stones, but I don't think it's right to lie to people if they ask.

And, if you want to stray off topic a bit, what is it about the different-man-every-week schedule that appeals to you? How did you get it started? When did you realize that this is what you want?

Finally, how do you imagine your sex life in 10 years?

 

no they do not know about each other

and i dont know if they should know about each other

and ican c were ur coming from about the lying part

and i like having diff-man-every-week schedual...i like it because each of my lovers has diff sex styles that please me
i have yet to find one lover that satisfys me enough to just have one
although the question i started this thread about is of one lover that comes preety close to satisfying my complete sexual needs but not completely

and i started with cheating on my then bf like a year and a half ago (he sucked in bed)
and i just kept messing with one every other week and i altenated them every other week
then i meet new lovers and added them to the schedual....



and as for my sex life in 10 yrs from now
i havnt really thought about that
so thats something for me to think about

and i just seem to keep a schedual of who i fuck with wat week

 

Well, it sounds like you're still just getting your bearings on sexual relationships. You're still really young. But if these guys are your friends, I hope you'll be honest with them. And if they can't accept you as you are, then it's alright to move on. There are absolutely all kinds of people in the world.

I think the more you get used to having a variety, the more you'll want variety for the sake of variety. A lot of it is the maturity of the guys, but a lot of it depends on your maturity, too. Physically and emotionally, you'll enjoy sex much more when you're in your 30s.

So, that's cool. As much as you enjoy it now, you've got 12 plus years of it getting better and better to look forward to.

 

i guess honesty is the best policy

and the 12plus years of getting better and better sound like something to really look foward to

 

there is no such thing as free love. stop being a slut and tell ur bf of 1.5 years the truth

i know i wouldnt want to be with you if i was in his position and u told me that shit.

theres no nice way to say this, your a slut. pick up your act, and have some morals.

one person at a time. with that one person u grow as a couple, and if sex was perfect with that one person when u were young then what would u have to look forward too. silly slut. i fucking hate sluts.
with that one person you grow and share and teach each other everything in relation to sex.
u or nobody needs several partners its call being a SLUT FACE!!! whore. lol hahaha

 

:rofl: hahaha lmao
if u know how to read i wrote "my then bf"
i broke up with him wen i cheated on him
and really calling me a slut
if someone calls me anybody a slut they are just saying it out of spite
because they cant get the same action
so say wat u want
it dont bother me sweetie

 

something to think about
thanxxx

 

it doesnt bother you that ur a slut cause u have no morals.

guys will want to fuck you and use u, but no one would want anything serious with u.