Is it normal that I really want man to put inside my ass? I ask alot of my friends and they say it's painful and not enjoyable, only the man enjoys it. On our side we can only feel pain. But I cannot understand why I keep thinking about it. Just by thinking I can get wet. It's like I don't feel the pleasure when they put inside my Virgina but I feel it when they put inside my ass. Do I need to see a doctor? I know this is not natural. I blame the guy who force it in last time.
Hi Cindypeh, well anal penetration with female is less common than vaginal....but as a bisexual man who bottoms for guys I can say that it does not have to be either painful and can be very pleasurable. Your sphincter is a stretchable muscle that will expand, so it is necessary to take time and use plenty of lube.....and if a previous guy was rough then just give it time and maybe oil your hole w olive oil or coconut oil. Good luck, enjoy. Simon
My wife was against it for years, but she finally gave in and tried and now she loves it. Take it slow lots of lube work up to it, use plugs and things like that first, after all that it will feel amazing.
As others have said, work up to it and use plenty of lube. Use toys to practice too. It depends if you are crying because of physical pain, which you will get used to, or because of the trauma of a guy who forced it in you, in which case you may need some help and support, a doctor can be a good place to start. If just the thought of anal sex makes you wet and you think you'll prefer it to vaginal sex then that is fine. There is no normal, everyone is different. Some people love anal sex, giving or receiving. As long as you enjoy sex don't worry if what you do you think is normal or not.
It is relatively normal for even straight couples to enjoy it today. Yes. In the past, it was seen as taboo, naughty, etc. Not so much anymore.
My fwb has been with dozens of men but had anal only once before i introduced her. Using various anal beads and lube she became totally wet. I also used a vibrator on her clit and she had a phenomenal orgasm. We not have included it our sexual menu. My fb is bi and recently asked me to fuck her anally . She has been out of town visiting her mom and hope to report back as soon as we do it. Even though she too has been with dozens of men and women she has a tight vagina so I am not sure about her ass and how tight it will be.
