Soo I'm 21 years old and like most other dudes my age I'm quite hormonal in my male nature considering that I'm single and I don't have a girlfriend or any sort of lover friend who I can get intimate with, I obviously resort to watching porn & masterbating on a pretty regular basis it's a remedy to cope with feelings of loneliness due to the lack of having a partner (I've had sex before but haven't been in a relationship for a while) soo by a regular basis I'm referring to the fact that I watch porn and masterbate just about every night before going to sleep and in the morning (morning wood gets me horny af). So is this a normal behavior pattern for someone my age I discovered porn around age 11 or 12 and lost my virginity at 16 years old and it's been going on for a while now so is this completely normal for me to do be feeling this and doing the things I do don't get me wrong I'd really prefer to have sex and be intimate instead of jacking my dick all the time but like I said I don't have a girlfriend and my options are limited so I'd love to hear some input!
At your age, I would say it’s normal. However, I would limit the porn. When you do find a girl friend or a FWB, don’t let porn consume you. Respectfully, maybe you should find other interest. As a older married man, My wife and I blend outside interest, with a healthy sex life that does include some porn on occasions.
I personally think it's not so much about "limiting" the porn, but more about having the awareness that one should not let porn consume oneself. I was a little older when I found myself single again, and I was definitely watching a lot of porn and mastUrbating(sorry OP, but spell it right man) back then. I still watch porn and masturbate today even though I have a girlfriend, because we're in a long distance relationship and it can get a bit difficult to stay physically intimate with each other. Porn is a good way to "keep the special plumbing in good order", if you will. I still don't know why you're concerned about your situation. But one thing I can imagine is, the moment you actually DO have doubts about your masturbatory habits, you start to perceive with them as potentially problematic. Now, THAT can be unhealthy, but not masturbating to porn in itself.
Wellspoken, Alt. Fonzo, finding yourself in the situation you describe, until you decide to change it, when not, rather than incessantly 'jacking your dick' to porn, view it as an opportunity to explore & indulge yourself sexually to the limit, giving yourself up to long, luxurious session of exquisite, excruciating slow-motion self adoration, appreciation, stimulation & loud, testicle-bursting gratification? Learn to 'edge', in which you prolong the joys of arousal indefinitely, always pushing your limits of the length of time & number of 'pleasure-peaks' you can enjoy. Rather than growing weary of it as a substitute for intimacy, think of each session as a time to tantalize & torture & train yourself for those intimate times with others. Explore & expand your fantasies -- have you given thought to same-sex loving?
Exactly, Let! Art, act & practice of masturbation, until your own secret, private self-touch brings the ultimate in delectable (at times, almost unbearable!) sexual pleasure! When your craving for it becomes totally irresistible, yet you can orchestrate & enhance & prolong the act itself, like the conductor of a lush symphony, tasting & savoring each sound from intro to crescendo, then you will have become its Master, your own Master! Mmm, my shameless sex-fiend friends, let us all lift our hips, lay bare our hungry self-desire, spread our legs together ...!
Dude, I’m almost twice your age. And even though I am currently in a relationship, and have sex on a weekly basis (we don’t actually live together), I have almost the same routine as you. I still spank it at least twice a day. So I’m going to go ahead and say normal!
Hm, now I know what I need do to be a masterbator. Thanks. :^D Also, Uhard, I sent you a mensage inbox, please check it out.
I appreciate all your input it's given me a lot of clarity on how to go about this I've been dealing with a lot lately and have found myself in sexual distress which is why I asked about this in the first place but you guys are totally right about sexual exploration and feeling out the wildest fantasies it's become something that I find deep pleasure in. When I do meet someone perhaps they may just share similar feelings and sexual urges which would really spice up the moment and heat in the bedroom there is no shame in jerking off! These aren't the old ages anymore it's the 21st century we can discuss our sexual desires outloud
I am married with a great sex life and I still masturbate almost every day , sometimes more. So perfectly normal I would say.
Definitely perfectly normal. I'm 62 & I usually masturbate to orgasm at least once a day, even when I'm in a relationship. When I don't have a partner, I usually do it 2-3 times a day - sometimes more. Some of my partners have enjoyed mutual masturbation as part of our love-making & we often gave each other great orgasms a couple times a day - even though we also made love a couple times a day.
