is this bad? - how many guys do you hook-up with?

As I get older and my memory gets worse I thought I would start keeping a few notes of guys I meet, especially as some I meet more than once and between their profile names and names they give me it can get confusing.

So yesterday I actually had a count up of guys I have hooked-up with over the last nine months and it averaged out at 15 guys per month......and some I met more than once.

Of course having started PrEP eight months ago may have encouraged a certain liberalism but just trying to get an idea of other gay guys proclivity.

Simon

 

I've been on PrEP now four years and go about every three months for std checkups and to get next free three month supply of PrEP.
Since the sexual health clinics always like to have an idea of how many meets you have had I started to keep a rough record...for my memory too ...and it's pretty consistent the last four years of about 250 guys a year.

Sometimes it's feast, sometimes it's famine.

Im back in N.Zealand after 2.5 months in India...met 55 guys there, some gorgeous young guys in their 20s; now it's quite quiet where I am but have had three hot meets with a very horny Maori trans lady.....she loves playing and using my ass...and it's hot to see her lovely tits n big nipples when she fucks me on my back.

In the last few years I've met quite a few Maori guys but she is my first Maori trans.

Simon

 

Not many, down to 1 person who is a regular and stops by once in a while. I let myself get a little careless a few months ago and was hitting up the local gloryhole just about every day. While not that many overall, I was starting to recognize cocks and mouths. Really addictive, so I went back to being careful and stopped going.

 

I'm only involved with two guys now. Hopefully, we're all careful enough to not contract anything. One is somewhat regular and the other is rarely able to meet. Needing to be discreet makes it difficult to find a time and place. A week ago I actually got banged good by each of them a day apart. That was a very rare surprise. I'd like to add one or two more safe guys to fill in the gaps. Or, someone who can meet often.

 

I wish I could even choose 1-5! Safe sex aside I want to be a gay slut so bad and have tons of male sexual partners!

 

It’s been over 2.5 years since I’ve hooked up with a man. But when I did I was hooking up w one guy once or twice a week. And maybe a Grindr hook up in between. I was a real man slut.. I’m no longer having gay sex

 

I'm 50, and it's far less than it was when I was 30-35. At 35 I found myself divorced and went through quite a promiscuous phase. I'd hook up with 5-10 guys a week easily. Now, probably closer to 2-3. I am married to a woman, and she sees a cpl guys a week, I also have a boyfriend and we have sex mostly with each other. I do love him, but he likes to watch me with other men. My wife does also, so she will go with me to the gay bar once or twice a month. My boyfriend and I do have sex with each other every time we are together,but once or twice a week he takes me to an adult theatre to watch me get cock..

 

Two regular sex partners, plus!

 

Well, my wife and I have gotten to where we primarily have sex with other men. Only occasionally with each other. She likes strong aggressive men with big dicks, and it just so happens....So DO I!

 

Wow! You are living the good life my friend!

 

At first I couldn't believe some guys' numbers. I thought my over 200 guys for anonymous oral sex over my first 20 m2m years was a lot, but that just averages to 1 cock a month. But that just doesn't make sense to me. I was going to the bathhouses and other gay sex venues more than once a month, with multiple cocks each time (during which I was also dating and trying to have sex with women, but they were all rejecting me). So maybe my estimate of 200 guys is way off.

However, in the last 10 years, when I stopped all the anonymous encounters (except for a couple of bathhouse visits the last couple of years), it's just been about a dozen guys through online sites and apps (averaging about 1 guy a year (!)), though anal was finally involved (thank God, because that is pleasure beyond imagination!). But that time also includes 3 years with a woman without any man sex, and very little since Covid during which I gained some weight that makes me self-conscious to hook up with guys (I have no interest in having sex with women anymore).

OK, that's it!!! I'm done with this bullshit. I'm a tall guy that is 30 pounds overweight, but I know some guys enjoy a heavier man. So I am getting back out there ASAP to really make up for lost time! I'm 61, single, gone on PrEP, and will still be careful screening guys for STDs, so now is the time to spread my seed!

 

Damn hot!

 

I started May of this year been with 3 guys. I want more. Just an update now I’ve been with 4

 

1-5 a year. Some years 0
Have fantasies about 4-5 at once. Doubtful I will ever be that lucky.