Is there something wrong with me?

Yeah

 

I'm not sure if you're comparing pot to crack, or you think they're the same, or.....


Either way, I suddenly see something about your worldview that totally explains this thread.

 

if you haven't had sex, you don't really know for sure that you dislike it.

introverts.

 

Didn't you post that you want to get spanked during sex?

 

Don't really worry about it, OP. Live your life and count your blessings. You have a chance to live life and become yourself without the overwhelming sex drive some people have.You have a better chance to be a fully-developed, awesome person.

I wasn't really interested until I was MUCH older than you, and I'm a guy (we're supposed to be dogs, right?). I wasn't gay and there wasn't anything wrong with me.

So chill.

 

I said spanked, yes. never said during sex.

 

This one tayworr,

..... is the test though. If what you say is true, then you should have no problem interacting with guys that arent going to want to get you naked....but thats not the case though is it.

Someone mentioned asexual, thats easy to spot as well, concepts of sex crop up and they are more likely to giggle, theres a certain kind of childlike innocence there....running into the bathroom to throw up wouldnt qualify

Someone mentioned lesbian, cos you are not attracted to your boyfriend? Equally as ridiculous

Thread is full of people telling you what you want to hear.

Arienne mentioned cutting, I assume from another post somewhere, you should probably read up on that first, work out what thats all really about, before trying to second guess yourself with all this stuff. It doesnt automatically mean low self esteem or depression, people with anxiety disorders, perfectionism....all types really. It is just transferance in the end, taking your mind off something else momentarily, just in a way thats a lot more confronting to people than going to the racetrack and betting on some horses. It doesnt have to have anything to do with anything else

 

yyhhh but this is diff, ur guy does things that make him unattractive, I just dont feel attraction at all.

 

You very well may be Asexual. I'm sure it's frustrating in a sexually permeated world. But in the end ot's your call what fits you and what you are. But consider every gender and race. You may be attracted to only one type of person. I know people who are only attracted to pre-op transgender people and people who have both sets of genitals. But like I said, it's up to you. Don't let our world's taboos and standards hinder you from being you.