I have a slight problem. Okay its a big one.' I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs now and for about a yr and a half I have been very uninterested in sex of any kind. He trys to turn me on, but I get turned off. I don't understand what is wrong with me and I feel bad because my b/f is more of the one suffering. Sometimes we only do stuff once a month and thats usually when I'm going through ovulation and a woman is more hormaonally charged. I've tried watching sex shows and reading erotic books but it doesn't seem to be working. Please I need help because I don't want to loose my b/f to something so easily solved.