Is there any way to stop or decrease female ejaculation?

My wife had to train her bladder/urethra/don't pee muscles to relax when she wanted to squirt. Could it be the opposite for you?

 

I have no idea.

It's worth a try, though. But, I'm not too sure what you mean by not relaxing my bladder/urethra/don't pee muscles. I'm assuming just hold it. ???

I should just stop masturbating. I mean, this is exhausting. It's never going to go away.

 

Yeah, the whole stop your pee in mid-stream kegel thing. You mentioned toying with the idea of doing it a few posts earlier.

I guess a more direct question would be, is it possible for you to cum and squeeze your PC muscle at the same time?

 

Not sure. I do hold something while I'm ejactulating because I always get scared it will be too much, but I'm not sure what I'm holding. It's more squeezing my thighs together. Considering I don't know much about the female body, I don't know what it means when I squeeze my thighs together. I guess it is holding my pee because I do the same thing when I need to pee. So, maybe it's the same muscle. Though, doing that doesn't really help. It's like it gets wet, then dips a bit, that's I get scared because I feel the dipping, hold my thighs together, and then it's gushing out multiple times. By that time, I can't really do anything, anyways because I'm orgasming. I don't know if I get the orgasm right before the ejaculating or during, so don't ask me that. Everything is really hard to explain.

I wish a professional could just watch me and tell me what is wrong with me and how to fix it.

I am trying to do different positions and different frequencies like someone suggested. I did get it just wet, but it was because I literally stopped. And for an hour I was walking funny because it kept... tickling, if that is the correct word to use. SO THAT WASN'T GOOD! It was more like a bad tease. Also, I'm trying to masturbate more. I really don't masturbate that much because the whole thing terrifies me. Okay, I'm overreacting. It doesn't terrify me. It actually feel good and relaxing while I'm doing it. It's more the ejaculation that upsets me. So, the aftermath. Anyways, maybe I'm like a guy in a way where if they don't masturbate or have sex enough they just go everywhere quickly when they do. So, maybe if I masturbate a ton, I'll dry up... hopefully, maybe.

 

When your water works begin, how intense are your Orgasms? What I mean is are they just "MMMMMMMMM that felt good" or "OMG I cant breath, eyes roll back, please please don't stop"! Like someone said before, you indeed have a gift, one which you are obviously stressed out about because you like many others who have that gift find it embarrassing. Why is it that a guy can pull his cock out and squirt all over your stomach or where ever but you cant let go with your own orgasm? Typically, guys who find the female squirting orgasm nasty are the guys who don't give a shit weather their bed mate cums or not. The majority of guys would give anything to be able to arouse, stimulate and have their women cum each time they have sex. Your gift is unique, don't look for ways to stop it or lessen it, look for a guy who understands he has been given a gift. You find that guy and your Orgasms are going to be heavenly because you will be able to let go and finally enjoy it. There are millions of us out there, don't give up and stop worrying about your ability to show your orgasm beyond just OOOOHing and AHHHHing in a guys ear! PS: Guys with a talented tongue, can certainly adjust to prevent a face full, the ones that don't want to get out of the way, are Keepers!

 

Like I said above, I'm sure my ill experiences with men have added to my negative thoughts on my gift, but it's not just my experiences with men. So, I don't think it's a simple, "Find the right man" solution. Not that, that solution is simple for me because I can't even find the right man. But, if I did, my problem, not gift won't be resolved. If anything, it will cause more problems because there is an added person involved. With mastubation, it's just me.

 

Jury's still out for me...

Back on topic I seriously believe the OP is a huge troll. World know that probably half the guy population would be tickled pink to have a woman who squirt when they simply kissed or hugged them. I've been with my wife for almost 20 years and never made her squirt...

Hell the only girl I ever been with who did squirt was when i was young and maybe I just didn't get it at the time or what but it smelled like pee, so it wasn't much of a turn on although I never minded it

 

I understand and respect that you think that.

I do want to add a correction to what you quoted me on. So, I said "But, I believe in it... for obvious reasons" or something like that. But, now that I'm thinking about it, since you said what you said above, it's not that I believe in it, it's actually that I don't believe in it, or more like, I don't believe in myself, because people act like you, as in they don't take me seriously. They either sexually objectified me when I provide this information or they think I'm lying. A big part of sex is the other person that you're having sex with and if they just think stuff like that about you, it's going to be hard for you to accept your sexuality.

Again, I understand and respect your opinion.

 

I feel like you're not getting the right answer here, allow me to attempt. No disrespect intended I promise.

-Squirting is NOT.. NOT NOT NOT a problem.
-I would bet a halfway decent amount of money that 99% of the guys who would have a problem with it, would be teenagers who have no clue about sex to begin with.

Furthermore,

If the woman Im with squirts.. MAJOR MAJOR points right there. Instantly turns up the awesome factor of the sex being had. My first real girlfriend was a major squirter, everytime we had sex the bed would be drenched, I mean like puddles forming.

Nothing bad at all can happen to the guys face whilst you're squirting on him, except have the current erection increase and the desire the plow you harder.


Squirting is fucking awesome and Id bet most men would agree.

AND.. since its unlikely we'll ever meet I have no fear in saying this.. If you're still having trouble with lame sex partners, look me up, you could drown me in your squirt and Ill just go harder and ask for more.

hope this helps.

 

Concrete in the offending hole.

 

I guess, but considering I've gotten some replies where I'm just lying, joke replies that have nothing or little to do with the subject matter, or the occasional sexually objectifying comment, it's hard to believe that people when put in this situation in real life will react will acceptance. I do understand that the Internet is a very dehumanizing place, so it makes sense that things will be reacted differently than they would be in real life. But, the Internet is not impersonal. It's still a collection of humans with emotions and thoughts interacting with other humans that have emotions and thoughts. I also understand that it doesn't matter what the majority thinks, whether it's online or in person. I just have to find that one person that is right for me, but when society is filled with majorities, both online and in person, it's harder in real life to find that minority.

The fact that I got the few unbiased comments, I'm truly thankful for and I hope with the information I gathered it will help me improve with masturbation, at least.

 

A woman squiting is an absolute turn on for a man because it answers one of the rarely asked or completely honestly answered question;
"Did you come?"

Think about it, you squirting when with a guy gives him the validation and reassurance that he provided you with a good time, that is something all men secretly want to know but often dread the answer.
Total confidence booster and insecurity cure for a guy.

You should be gratefull to have that ability.

 

Is there any way to stop or decrease female ejaculation?

Avoid female stimulation.

 

Research shows that female ejaculation doesn't have precedence to the female orgasm. So, just because a girl squirt doesn't mean she had or didn't have an orgasm. A bunch of girls don't squirt and still have orgasms as well. Maybe it's just an involuntary bodily response that has no function whatsoever or she is urinating on herself. Who knows?

All in all I think you shouldn't base squirting as a job well done. You should just ask the girl you're with. I'm sure you're fine.

 

Nobody has suggested this yet...but have you tried dehydrating yourself and then seeing the results after a private intimate session?


If you want a serious post response you'll always find one from me so PM me if you want to.

But I also endorse drummin and american's advice that they have told you already.

I personally have other questions for you but I am hesitant to ask them, since you indicated you are embarrassed about discussing this in general.

 

Like, not drinking anything several hours before masturbating? That's a new one, I gotta admit. Lol!

 

Man, I wish I had you as a partner!! Damn, I would take care of all of that and then some. You should feel comfortable either way. You should mention it to your lover so they are not surprised. IMHO, you have a gift that I would love!!

 

I'm really disappointed with some of the stupid answers to this thread! Some of you morons don't have a clue, if you can't contribute something helpful or constructive, please just don't post ANYTHING! Though I guess you are all probably way too stupid to actually understand my anger....

 

What are you angry at?
People post questions on a public forum and ask for people's opinions and you get your panties in a bunch because it doesn't coincide with what/how you think people should have responded?

 

You are too thick to even see what I'm getting at you idiot!