Is there any way to stop or decrease female ejaculation?

Well, towels for me don't help. It goes through it. But, my sex blanket works. It's made of that material that you get put on you when you're at the dentist getting x-rays done. It's really heavy and thick. It's really big too. It works. But, I was hoping for a more eliminating or decreasing solution.

Also, I understand where you people are getting at now. I'm sorry for asking the question.

But, thanks for the joke replies, they did put a smile on face and the few serious replies. Thank you everyone.

 

Then he would die happy :2thumbsup:

 

Truth + Poetry = :rofl:

 

That is interesting. I'm going to look into that.

My only conclusion from years of research is that I have weak muscles in that area and I need to make them stronger. So, I've been looking into some kegels. And I was just about to get some, but I found this article that states that kegels only make the tunnel of the vagina tighter, which is great for sexual intercourse, but it doesn't actually do anything to make the muscles stronger. Actually, it's makes them weaker because of the tasking it's doing with the kegels. So, I'm back to square one.

All in all, I have this feeling there is something I can do because if porn-stars and other professionals in the sex industry can control what happens to their body during sexual pleasure, why can't I?

Anyways, that's is. It's silly, I know.

 

Indeed. Here's why:
• Porn is not real life.
• Porn does not necessarily include pleasure
• Squirting in porn is sometimes some other liquid

No kitty here so I can't say for sure .... but if you train a muscle you do not make it weaker. And training muscles is what keels do.

 

I understand porn isn't real life, but these people base their career off of sex, so I would assume they know a lot about sex, for example, how to control things. I just want control, that's it. I get it, I can't make it stop. But, a little control would be nice.

As for the kegel thing, I don't know, that's just what I read and it put me off to using kegels because I don't want to make my muscles weaker and ejaculate more, if female ejaculation is caused because of weak muscles. I'm kind of just gasping at strings here.

I'm not sure why you're talking about a kitty. I don't understand that part of your comment, sorry.

 

Kitty as in pussy.

 

Oh, okay. Cool. Thanks, for answering.

 

I have the same problem sometimes... not all of what you posted. Pretty much only one part of it. I don't have this issue with guys going down on me or w sex--- when I do squirt w sex me n hubby don't find it to be too much and I've never known a guy not to like it...but what drives me nuts is that when I masturbate there is wayyyy too much fluid from squirting. If I was sitting on the couch or laying in bed or something the couch or sheets would be super wet. But really I just grab a towel. With me personally I haven't found any way to control it but I also don't have accidents like you mentioned and don't really consider it much of a problem.... it's just annoying if I were to forget to grab a towel.

 

Indeed, it is quite annoying. For me, it's more embarrassing than annoying, though.

Thanks for sharing.

 

I want to have intercourse and masturbate without having to bring a towel. Is that a out for a girl to ask for?

Why can't it just get wet and that's it?

 

Well, I'm not sure what it's made of. But, it feels like that. I think I wrote it was made of that, sorry. I was nervous replying to everyone and I kind of wasn't thinking about what I actually was typing. It's this: http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=351891&catid=181966 It took me awhile to find it because I threw away the box, but yea... it feels heavy and thick like the thing they put on you at the dentist for x-rays, but I know it's not that. I just panicked and said that. It works a lot better than towels because that just soaked through.

As for your other question, it happens with partners, toys, and my own manuel stimulation.

I'm not sure what you mean by lessening the stimulation. Can you provide examples? You don't have to go into too much detail. I'm uncomfortable typing about this enough, lol. But, just general examples. Do you mean, stopping in the middle of stimulation because I do that. I tell my partners to stop and I stop. But, if the stimulation continues, the ejaculation occurs eventually.

I don't know if this serves any importance, but I've only masturbated for no more than ten or so minutes and same goes for sexual encounters with partners. So, sometimes I wonder if I go longer if that will slow down the fluid, but I never tried it. I have had continual sessions several times a day, each lasting about ten or so minutes and I ejaculate every time. But, I've never gone continuously, other than those ten or so minutes, if not less because after five minutes I have reached my orgasm several times. But, I can go ten minutes and get more orgasms. I kind want to try that with masturbation, not intercourse, but I'm scared that it will just be more and more.

I know I sound really sad when it comes to sex, but really it's not as depressing as it sounds. Lol! Or maybe it is because I'm in my 20s and I should know what to do by now. And I shouldn't be scared of going longer than ten minutes. It's embarrassing. It sucks. Whatever.

 

I actually always urinate before masturbating or engaging in sexual relations. And that doesn't really change anything. But, I have read that female ejaculation is just urination. So, maybe I am just urinating on myself. I don't know because research says that, but the thing is that what comes out is more white in color and thicker while my urination is liquidly and obviously more yellow. And it doesn't smell, according to people, like pee smells. I can't smell, so I personally don't know. But, I have asked a few guys to smell it and then smell my pee, and according to them it's different. By the way, that's not a fetish of mine. I'm just trying to see if I am urinating on myself. Also, it feels different than pee. Also, it doesn't stain the bed or something like pee does, it just dries on it's own. So, I don't know. But, i'm a human being like everyone else and if research says it's urination, I don't see why I would be different. Then again, there isn't much research on female ejaculation. So, in other words no one really knows what is going on with women that can ejaculate. It's very conflicting.

I'm not going into detail of what causes my stimulation, but if I do move away from those spots or stop doing what stimulates me, wouldn't that be counterproductive? As in I wouldn't get stimulated at all. I think I get what you're saying, though. Like try to find a spot or a method that is still stimulating, but not as much. But, I don't know if I have that. It's fairly all stimulating and to equals severities. But, I can play around, no pun intended.

On a last note, I don't feel as if I was trolled. I actually assume people think I'm the troll, so they think I'm some 50 year old man pretending to be a woman with the "ability" (Lack of better wording) to female ejaculate. And that makes me nervous because who wants to be seen as a troll? Also, when I talk about this I feel very inadequate, like the guys think I'm a prude or whatever and the girls think I'm a freak. While the more educated and sexually experienced people just think I'm stupid. Also, according to research it's not common to female ejaculate and I'm not one for being different because I don't like being different. It's not a label that sits right with me. I like being like everyone else and just a typical woman, like a dime a dozen.

 

But, I do want to add that I actually kind of like the community here. Some of the threads are interesting, just solely to read, like that thread where the OP is asking people to describe their sexual organs. I'm still reading that. But, also to share my opinion without having to go into too much detail that would make me feel uncomfortable, like this thread.

 

After reading a lot of the responses, I think you just have not found the right partner who can accept you for your fantastic orgasm's.. No really, I am serious. I understand the mess and all of that, but you have a gift!! Some of us would worship you!! Daily!! I would figure someone would have to be able to take care of you as needed. Ejaculate and all. Clean up is part of the whole picture. Some understand that more than others.

 

That's sweet. Thank you.

Maybe you're right. To be honest, I have't had the best luck with guys. Actually, despite the fact that I have had sexual partners, I've never had a boyfriend and officially went on a date. So, that should tell you something. Probably something like I'm a whore, but besides that... something, lol. Maybe if the guys that I was with didn't react the way they did and I didn't read so many forums with horror stories of guys having their girl (actually ex) be too wet, maybe I wouldn't be so terrified now. Heck, I think someone disliked my OP. All that gets to me because I'm a sensitive person. But, it doesn't matter now because the terror, no matter where it stems from, whether it's from other people, myself, or a combination of both, is real and goes deep. So, I don't think it will take just a guy (Not that guys are just guys, but you know what I mean) to help me now. I have to help myself. But, it would be nice to have a guy like that.