Is there any point in giving a blowjob if guy doesn't cum?

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  1. Iangreen

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    Waste of time is it not?
     
  2. 6Sailor9

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    Isn’t an orgasm good enough! Might be an older man that just drip!
     
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  3. Iangreen

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    That's Cummin
     
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  4. Andy Schumer

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    Sometimes a full penis orgasm doesn’t have an ejaculation, or very little.
    That’s still a pleasure taken to completion.
    This is real life, not expectations or porn, and that’s what we need to go by and become more aware
     
  5. wattambor

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    my gf sucks my dick right before i fuck her so she doesn't do it until i cum but it still feels really good
     
  6. 6Sailor9

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    Welcome! Please introduce yourself!;-)
     
  7. Bazz888

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    Depends on what you think is the purpose of a blow job. Some women get aroused as they suck but they don't want an eruption in their mouth. Others want it onto their boobs and others want it inside them.
    Sucking can be as much part of foreplay as it can be to make a guy cum.
    Of course, whether it's a waste of time; that can depend on whether the guy considers his GFs needs and desires.
     
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  8. drock69

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    No, it’s not a waste of time if you’re still pleasuring him
     
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  9. Daretobare

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    My fwb had prostrate removal and no longer produces cum. It bothers him more than it does me. I still enjoy pleasuring him through his climax.
     
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  10. Andy Schumer

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    Unfortunate. But after two men over the years said they no longer get erections and orgasms since their prostate got removed your fwb is lucky he still can enjoy the pleasures
     
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  11. olderndirt

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    My wife does not allow men to cum in her mouth. They will get their orgasm in other ways. So far, she has had no complaints about her blow jobs.
     
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  12. Jamie28London

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    My girlfriend loves sucking my cock, and generally we start sex with a blowjob. So then we would have sex and I would cum with her or inside her, or sometimes on her feet etc.

    If we are feeling frisky and we dont want full sex she will give me a full blowjob. She will make me cum either by using her mouth right up to me ejaculating in her mouth, or she will get me close with her mouth and then handjob the cum out of me.

    So i suppose not all blowjobs end with an orgasm or cum, because its been used as a starter, and the cum comes later. I would always prefer an orgasm, even if she sucked it for a while and I had to finish it off. However my girl always finished me off, she would take it as a failure or her part if she doesn't. So Im lucky in that respect, do other girls leave you hanging after getting you hard?
     
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  13. bbw-lover71

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    I have always found the sensation of the blow job my partner gives me more rewarding than the actual cumming it's self
     
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  14. Twogigahz

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    Sometimes a bj just foreplay for the sex that follows...but I like it best when she finishes me off in her mouth...there's just something about it...the warm, the wet, that tongue, the suction....and the visual....I love to watch
     
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    Definitely not a waste of time! There's not much that feels better than my cock being massaged by my wife's lips, tongue, and throat. Even if I don't cum name a better way to spend some time. On the plus side, it gets her pussy soaking wet and her mind and body ready and eager to fuck. Hard! She enjoys sucking cock as much as I enjoy getting sucked. What's not to like?
     
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    I don't think it's a waste of time as long as the person doing the sucking enjoys themselves. I've been sucked and sucked without giving or getting a load of cum and had a really good time.
     
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    I have sucked a few cocks, and withdrew them as the come shot out. With such strong jets, I've not sucked the come out of one yet. Still it's possible I'd do it. I'm horny enough.
     
  18. KDaddy23

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    Getting him to cum isn't the only reason to suck cock; just working it over with your mouth can be pleasing and satisfying. There are too many variables that might keep a guy from cumming so the point - and such as it is - is to make sucking him good for him and myself as well and if he cums, gravy time. I just learned not to feel bad or get pissed off if he doesn't cum.
     
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  19. iowaguy51

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    Iv
     
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    A few years back a friend and I would sit on her couch and watch a baseball game. She would suck now and then just because she liked to suck cock and obviously I enjoyed both feeling her and watching her take it in her mouth. There was no urgency to release and she actually preferred that I didn't. At least not early on and she also didn't want a mess on her couch if she didn't take it all. If I came later by myself, that was fine too. Who would turn down a woman sucking your cock. Not me...
     

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