when i moved to ft. collins, i had been languishing in the home for so long. then i found out one of my neighbors belonged to the mother's center. i decided to attend the meeting, and found a great group of people supporting each other's sanity. so, anyway, you can go to www.motherscenter.org to find one in your area. there's not a lot, but if you have one, i highly recommend you jump in it. it's a huge help.