Is premature ejaculation permanent?

I’m honestly petrified right now with how bad my sexual stamina is. I’m 19 and I just had morning sex with my gf and I lasted like 15 seconds, and this is pretty much the norm. Longest I’ve ever lasted was like 3-4 minutes and I’ve been having sex since 17. I met my current gf right after I turned 18 and ever since then I haven’t gotten any better. You’d think having sex with the same partner for a year I’d be able to last at least 30 minutes but nope. I’ve been trying to fix this for a lil while now by doing kegels, stop start, squeezing the tip, distracting myself, and deep breathing and nothing has worked. It hasn’t been to long maybe just a month but still I would expect a tiny bit of improvement by now. I’m scared that I’m going to have PE for the rest of my life because like cmon who tf lasts 15 seconds?? I see other guys say that online but idk every ametuer porn video I’ve seen with young people they at least last 7 minutes and most 20-40 minutes. I’m worried if it’s this bad right now it’s a permanent thing I’ll never be able to fix. Is this something to worry about? Because this morning was just so awful and pathetic(like almost every other time) I’m about ready to just throw the white flag and give up. I’m starting to obsess over this issue and get depressed about it. The reason I stress about this so much is sex is just amazing and magical to me and I’m a real good looker, I have a great body and a huge you know what and my foreplay and oral abilities are extremely good and keep getting better but that all goes to waste with exploding after like 8 pumps

New here and really liking these threads, thanks for any advice know y’all can help me

 

You will find that most guys have this problem when they first start having sex , I did and just like you a few seconds and I was done , as I have said on another thread , I concentrated on something else when I was getting close , for me it was racing my motorcycle , my only objective was pleasing her after accomplishing that I let my self go ..

 

I had the same problem years ago. Emptying my balls regularly through masturbation and edging really helped me. I can last much, much longer these days.

 

Don't stress about it man. Weve all been there. You should actually be happy that your sex drive and connection is so strong. Have you tried jerking off a few hours before having sex? It always worked wonders for me, especially when the girl was out of leauge.