Is Porn Okay In A Sexless Relationship Ship?

I don't see a problem with watching porn, as long as you understand that what you are seeing in porn is often an unrealistic depiction of what sex will actually be like.

 

Porn always good. I watch porn right next to my wife regardless of if weare going to have sex

 

Well it depends on what sorta relashionship ship you've got.
You can't be watching any porn on a little tinny, but then you'd have better things to do if you were on a cruise ship. So, if you're on a yacht though I think that's your ship of choice to watch porn on. Every yacht I see on tv has babes all over it.

 

i knew a lady who only had sex for procreation due to sexual abuse...her and her husband are still happily married. talk to her about the porn, explain you don't want to disrespect her wishes or destroy her trust and that this is something just for you. she might just say hell yah do it up if you come at it honestly with her.

if you guys had been together for 5 plus years and already had sex i would say that no sex is a bad sign, but if it hasn't happened yet then i think you're safe that she isn't with someone else.
if she had a pushy guy hurt her i could see why she wouldn't want sex. lots of girls wont do anal because one guy one time was pushy and hurt her and no one says anything negative to them or their man if she doesn't want it in the ass. so i think any hole can go that way and good for you for not just leaving and not being pushy. i am a huge advocate of clear concise communication, if you try that 9/10 times you will learn something you needed to know. it can go good or bad, but it was usually necessary

 

Did you have to bring it up to your wife?

Thanks for the response, yeah I wouldn't even mind trying anal with her. Scared to bring it up lol! Exactly it.. I didn't want to be a dickhead boyfriend and pressure her, I wanted her to be ready for it but I'm worried it's not going to happen for a long time or at all.. I think I'll have to mention it, if I can watch porn it helps take that tension away.

 

I usually put out before the first date

Almost always I think actually

 

Are you on grinder?

 

Get her to improve her oral sex skills.

 

No I just talk to them, dont need no damn app

Have to be able to "read" them first anyway

 

Maybe introduce her to Porn as well, can be a new thing for you to do together. Get her on Porn hub and see what she likes. If she is totally against it, it could make for a rough talk but if not...

 

Tell her blowjobs and anal is not real sex as long as you don't bust the cherry.

 

I think it's certainly ok. I also like to watch adult videos from time to time. I watch Porn online in hd mostly. Just a few days ago I found cool website with free videos. Besides, you can watch it with your girlfriend too to add more passion to your relationship.

 

I don’t see anything wrong with it. Since your in a sexless relationship, if it fills a need then do it. Don’t sneak around, do it in plain view. Don’t live in the cellar. At least your partner will know what you are doing and you don’t have to hide.

 

Agreed, let her know who she is married to and the result of the sexlessness. Everyone has needs let them be known, suttelly. Sex is very important to mental health and relationships is usually where it is taken care of.

 

Without reading any of the earlier comments and just going off the original question...

Porn, in moderation, can be a good thing in any relationship.

 

Yes it can be and it can expand the horizons of an old traditional missionary position type of relationship.

 

I don't see the problem. Sometimes things slow down in a relationship and I'd much prefer to watch porn than to cheat and get dumped.