Is My Man Gay Or Bi

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by kelbee, May 14, 2015.

  1. kelbee

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    Morning all
    A bit of an odd one here. Is the husband gay or bi? I have asked him and he says no!
    I am concerned as he is a male model and does work with other good looking men. I don't know how to put this but a few months back I used one of my toys on him as a dare and a bit of fun, we both loved it especially him.
    Since then we discussed and ended up ordering a strap-on type, it really turns him on especially when I put him in some of my stockings and maybe a little dress.
    His personality is very heterosexual and our love life is amazing.
    Hevis very open minded but I'm worried that he might tell Me he is gay or bi. I love pleasing him so certainly don't want to stop having fun.
    Any opinions will be grateful.

    Kelly x
     
  2. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Took The Words Right Out Of My Mouth...... :)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  3. kelbee

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    Haha and no more replies maybe a bit too odd
     
  4. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    That's because this has been discussed at length in about 753 threads. Nothing you said makes him gay or bi. Have fun and don't over-think it.
     
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  5. drumminmama

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  6. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    [SIZE=10.5pt]Well Kelly so what if he is bi. His is not gay, as he is enjoying sex with you. [/SIZE]
    [SIZE=10.5pt]Why worry about it? Is he faithful to you?[/SIZE]

    [SIZE=10.5pt]Sounds kinky to me and like you have a good sex life. Try a mfm 3some maybe that will answer your question.[/SIZE]
     
  7. kelbee

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    He is Faithfull and I do trust him. I would happy try a Mfm threesome.
    It is always anal play, I did try put my strapon in his mouth but he wasn't too keen on that.
     
  8. kelbee

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    Another thing Is we did have a threesome and he did take a real cock, would he be bi sexual if he enjoyed the feeling but didn't find the same gender attractive?
     
  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    here's my thought: i'm straight and i would not enjoy any sexual activity with a man. so at the other end of the spectrum, if you're a woman and he's enjoying sexual activity with you, he's probably not gay.

    bi? i dunno, maybe?
     
  10. rocketman88

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    Prosate play is awesome it gives as multiple orgasm and is pleasurable it that simple. It not hard to understand really if something feels good you want to keep doing it and well the prostate is a good supplier of enjoyment. If he is game I highly reccomend this neat toy. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33239
     
  11. PCJoe

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    He's gay or bi if he is attracted to other men. If he likes to hav his ass played with/penetrated BY A WOMAN WITH A TOY then he is just a straight guy into anal stimulation.
     
  12. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Lolz, like how you left that tidbit till your 4th post in this thread,

    You already know the answer to your original question don't you


    and photos of the hot guys he works with please
     
  13. kelbee

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    It meant to say if we had a threesome
     
  14. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    One of my partners has been a third in a MMF. He (eventually) mentioned he'd briefly sucked the other guy.
    Said it was interesting in the moment, not something he has on his mind.
    "Really, I just felt a little sorry for you and your jaw problem."
    (Little? This dude needs shrinking pills.)

    So, an activity isn't an attraction, and you trust his faithfulness.

    Keep talking with him. Sexuality morphs.
     
  15. blufx

    blufx A guy in a very odd position

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    Aman doesn't have to be gay or bi to have sex with a man. I don't want to make love to man like I do a woman but I do like sucking his dick. especially with a woman there.
     
  16. MikeE

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    It doesn't matter if he's bi, gay or straight.
    What matters is that he likes whats happening and wants more of it.
    It sounds like you like what's going on too.
     
  17. drumminmama

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    I sort of get why a tidy label is helpful, but more often labels hurt.
    Just enjoy each other, don't rush into including others, and vet them well. No crazies or clingers.
     
  18. Ophion

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    Reasoning that, because the form of penetrative sex available to gay men is anal, any man who enjoys having something up his arse, even if it is a replaca of a penis, must be gay is like saying "all cats have four legs therefore anything that has four legs must be a cat"

    There isn't anything in what you've said that would indicate being bi, and he certainly isn't gay if he has a sexual and romantic relationship with out. As long as you believe he is faithful in that relationship I'd not worry too much about labels.
     
  19. Jebb5688

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    I'm not attracted to dudestablish at all. But I love anal! My gf and I have alot of fun, and she wants to see me get the real thing really bad. I have to admit, dildos and toys feel good and when I use them on her she says it doesn't feel nearly as good ad when it's me inside of her. So of course I'm curios how the real thing feels. I'm just gonna cover my head and pretend its not a dude. It's Gonna make her hot and crazy as hell, trying it tonight for her. Any suggestions?
     
  20. Barecouple

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    I love having my ass played with,it feels great... Even better because it's my wife doing it! It's about the pleasure it gives and the intimacy.she straps on, I couldn't bear thinking about anyone else doing it,especially not another man.
     

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