is my girlfriend a s*lut?

it's ironic that you're the only one in the thread whose post was particularly judgmental.

and you didn't even read the thread. the person that you're throwing personal attacks at said that she wasn't a slut, and used 5 guys a week as a counter example of what a slut might actually be.

 

If it bothers you, you shouldn't be with her. Not because she's a slut but because its not fair to her if you're secretly judging her all the time.

When you love someone you just have to accept their dirty laundry and move past it.

As a side note, I once had an eastern European tell me I was a prude and that all American girls have too many hang ups. So I always assumed, from knowing that guy, that eastern europeans dilligently practiced free love lol. So I guess cultural differences are relative.

 

Let people be who they are and love them for who they are. If it really bothers you that she's been with 30 guys you could try:

an open relationship

being Sex buddies who still care about each other as friends

being friends but not being romantic in any way

The double standard that women are held to in this puritanical society is so unfair. Guys can do as they please but women are shamed for liking sex is completely unjustified and contradictory. Sex is awesome, it feels good, it's spiritual in so many ways if you can get past all the white noise whispering words of judgment and fear. That's the fact there, only fear would make anyone me included worry about about a girl having 30 sex partners. If it was a case of STD's you would be wearing a condom (which I hope you are) and could go get tested, you could even do it together. Problem Solved!

So what are you afraid of? Does she treat you nicely? Is she good to you? Unless she's bat shit crazy or something I have to ask you Alexei_ what is it that's causing you fear? If she treats you good and you have fun together just relax and go with the flow. If you're worried about an STD go get tested.

I've found in situations like this in life there's some gratitude to notice and be humbly thankful for. If I was in your shoes I'd be grateful she's clearly honest, that's a good quality to have in anyone around you in your life rather they're a friend or lover. She's also clearly very comfortable with her sexually, IMO that's a good quality to have especially when two people can be honest with each other.

Whatever happens I hope you land on your feet Alexei_

 

30 people man, are you kidding me?

 

You Have Presented Your Case To The HF's Court For Judgement....

We Have Taken Into Consideration All Evidence And Statistics Supplied By

Yourself....

*question to* Foreman Of The HF's Jury,Would You Please Hand Down The Verdict....

Tis My Pleasure Your Honour, Thanks To A S**tload Of Evidence*dirty pics*, And Lots

Of Winks And Secret Notes Passed Down From The Bench..................

We Have No Hesitation In Finding Her Guilty In The First Degree.

She Is Indeed A SLUT....



Cheers Glen.

 

bang the slut and be no 31 !!!

 

Maybe he meant "Is my girlfriend a salute?" (s*lut=salut=French for 'salute').

His girlfriend is, definitely, a "salute" to sluts everywhere. I salute her.

 

salut is not french for salute. It just means hello. (just throwing it out there).

I dont think she's a slut. Slut is such a nasty word. Maybe she's just open and has alot of life experience.

wait.... she's 22?


oh.

But then again she's been active since 14 so... thats like 8 years of shlong riding. I guess 30 isnt that bad?

I think?

 

You Canucks,,always in need of a good "schoolin' ",,

"Salut" comes from the same Latin root as "salute", which means to "greet" someone, in other words, to "say hello". It's not the form of "salute" where you throw a hand gesture, but the greeting.

Ever hear the word "salutations", as in "greetings"?

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/salute

 

I have. I thought you meant like a 21 gun salute type thing. That's not how we use salut.

that being said, a french canadian being schooled by an american at french...

:leaving:

 

Oh, but this "american" speaks French. Quelle suprise.

"Knowing" a language often involves understanding more than it's popular usage, "seulement". N'est-ce-pas?

 

Je comprends.

 

bon :sunny:

 

Quebecois isn't real French, anyways.

:hide:

 

batard!

 

haha you racist!

 

WE GUYS THAT HAVE A LOT OF EXPERIENCE we never get cocky about it .
number one rule . never tell numbers . NEVER .
and yes she is a slut , sexually she now is overused . she has nothing new for you . if you are serious for her . you are an idiot . if it is only for fun . then use her . . i am european to . these kind of girl are not good for serious relationship . 30 men and 22 ,she is unstable .

 

sexually active since 14, and 30+ different partners is fairly slutty. But sluts make it so guys get laid so we shouldn't complain.
A guy has to work to get laid, and beat the competition, hence the double standard.

 

One size fits all. Pay attention to current personality.

 

Whatever you do, don't get it in to your head that you probably don't have the biggest dick she's been with.