Is MMF a gateway to being bi?

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  1. Hugh_36

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    My experience of this was I started by getting off on licking and fucking my gf after another guy had had her, to watching, to us doing her together to now well suck each other to orgasm. Is that the same for others?
     
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    If you have this idea in your head, You're halfway there.
     
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  3. KDaddy23

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    It can be a gateway; the fantasy of winding up sucking cock in a threesome has been around for longer that I've been around; for some guys, the MFM threesome is the only way you can get them to suck cock and then if the woman asks them to... or makes them do it. Eating another guy's cum out of her pussy... isn't sucking it straight out of his dick but it is, as we used to say back in the day, "sucking dick by proxy" and the thought being that if you'd eat a guy's cum out of a woman's pussy, you might as well just suck his dick. I have known guys to only "become cocksuckers" in the MFM threesome because, as they've inaccurately have said, it's not gay if there's a woman present.

    My thought has been, "Why pin your hopes on getting into a threesome and as a reason to suck cock and be more bisexual when, um, you can go right to sucking cock without the threesome?" It could be a gateway but, eh, some guys just get off on eating cream pies and whether they made it, or some other guy did.
     
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    I guess it could be. Like if you are in a 3some and things eventuate that you stroke his dick, kiss him, suck it of fuck him then maybe that is Bi. This might be your gateway into trying Bi sex.

    2 guys sharing a girl who do not interact with each other only touching her and having sex with her oral, anal, vaginal whatever if it's all on her then I guess it's just a threesome.

    If you eat another guys cum from her pussy and some do then I'm not sure if that's a Bi thing or what.

    I hear some guys like there wife's to go out "Hot wife" have sex with a guy and come home after he has cum in her and then the husband's go down on their wife eating his cum then having hot sex. No man on man physical interaction or intimacy.

    I have eaten my wife out after blowing in her. Just once or twice. I try work myself up to it but she doesn't crave it and I kind of lose interest
     
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    It certainly can be if all three of you are open to the possibilities. For me, there is nothing more enjoyable than sucking a man's cock along with a woman. Two mouths, two pairs of lips, and two tongues working his head, shaft, and balls.
     
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    I have eaten my wifes pussy after she had been with another guy, unknowingly. She didn't think it was any big deal but didn't tell me until years later. I just thought she was all hot and juiced up from excitement. The reality was that it wasn't a big deal. She had sucked my cock after I had fucked another girl and she let me play and eat her wet and slippery pussy. Ah!!:yum: College days and some good weed.
     
  7. Hugh_36

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    Did she get off on knowing you were licking her after another guy had been there? That seems quite common for girls.
     
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    Yes, she said she found it very exciting :smirkcat:when she was also seeing another guy who had unknowingly gone down on her after I had made a huge deposit. She never told me any of this until years later. I was just a stupid inexperienced horny college kid that never gave it a thought while searching for pussy.
     
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    MMF can be a lot of things. It can be a way to show your woman that you enjoy being part of her sexual fulfillment, it can be a way to be up close in a voyeristic experience, and it can be a way to find out if you can really go through with touching another man.
    I didn't have much chance for the gateway experience. I started with guys first and added girls later. Just my circumstance, not that I started out preferring guys over girls.
    Girlfriends can be a great way to be introduced to sex with another man. I had one serious girlfriend who was an absolute blowjob fanatic. After we had some heart to hearts she took me to a glory hole where she had me watch her. She kissed me after the first guy came in her mouth. She made it sloppy and sexy. I didn't flinch at all. We shared the next few cocks poking through the wall. If I wasn't already bi she would have taken me there.
    I had another casual girlfriend who thought it was funny to get laid before our dates. She would sit on my face and ask me if she had sex earlier or not. She would have been another one to turn me bi if I wasn't already there.
    I prefer to have most sex with my wife in the mix. Giving a blowjob takes on another level having her see me while she's working on her pleasure. But when I get into anal with a guy I don't want her to see me turn into such a sissy when I'm on the bottom. Not bad when I'm the top but I still like to keep that between me and the other man.
     
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    Could you tell if she’d had sex or not?
     
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    Yes, I could. Her pussy always tasted different after sex. Sometimes she'd leak cum which is unmistakable but if we hooked up a few hours after her sex there was less 'juice' but definitely that used pussy taste. It was like an aphrodisiac, always followed by passionate hard sex. She wasn't trustworthy, but still very fond memories.
     
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    I love how she used it to turn you on. I gf has teased me like that to get a reaction and as you say passionate hard sex. I’d just enter her in one thrust, feeling her wet and open from his cum.
     
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    Has anyone else found them having more interaction with the other guy each time? First time we almost ignored each other now there is much more touching and even sucking. ?
     
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    Sure, it CAN be....and why not?
     
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    The first time I gave into my girlfriend’s request for a threesome with a guy I was of course nervous. The first part of the evening was all about her. Then it became all about her coaxing me to relax and touch his cock and let him play with mine. The evening moved quickly to oral. So yes, an MMF can absolutely lead to bi.:p
     
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    Its not the Gateway, Its the Backdoor entry.
     
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    I have always been curious about sucking dick, but honestly I think the only way it would happen would be in a MMF situation
     
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    There's a famous SNL music bit with Lady Gaga and Timberlake on this.
    3-Way ("The Golden Rule")
    One line in the song is "It's not gay if it's in a three way". Gaga convinces Timberlake - Samberg to have a 3 way with her. It's very funny! LoL!
     
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    This is absolutely brilliant! I love it so much and don't know how I missed it. Thanks for sharing this clip!

    I love the idea of a couple buddies finding a girl to have a hot threesome with, especially because they have unconscious gay desire for each other. If that's the road you take, great.

    I seem to be different than the vast majority of bi guys, because since my gay feelings turned on at 30 (I'm now 62), it's always been just a switch for me, either I'm feeling 100% gay and only hot for man-to-man sex, or 100% straight and only thinking of women. For this reason straight MFM or bi MMF/FFM porn was always a turn off for me, because it left me so confused. There's pussy, but then there's cock, OMG, what should I be feeling desire for?

    When my gay desires surfaced at 30 after my first girlfriend of three years broke up with me, I just went to a video arcade to suck my first cock straight away--after watching gay porn for days. Through the subsequent years, especially after failing with women on dates (getting continuously rejected), I would switch into gay mode and go to all sorts of gay sex venues, especially bathhouses.

    The only exception happened with girlfriend#2. First, she loved the feeling of dominance that it brought her when she would fuck my ass with a strap-on dildo. But there I am, having sex with a woman, but all I can think of was how I wished it was a real man fucking me in the ass with his real cock right now instead of her (though I am still a bottom virgin with men). And second, after a very turbulent three-year relationship with her, we decided in late 2019 to just be friends with benefits. That didn't work at all, with her dating other guys, and with me jerking off to gay porn at home all the time (I still didn't want to "cheat" on her with real guys). When finally I found myself unable to cum while fucking her without pretending I was fucking a guy, I knew my days being with women was numbered. At the end of the year I broke up with her, and I've only been dating and hooking up with guys ever since, without any intention or desire to have sex with a woman again--though I still feel very attracted to them.

    So I guess my adversity to MMF etc. all along was, maybe, a sign that I was really mostly gay. I just wish it didn't take me 30 years--or 50 years actually--to figure that out. I could've avoided all that heartache with women, and could've been having a lot more fun with guys, maybe even falling in love and getting married to a guy.
     
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    I continue to wait for someone to explain to me why having a "hot threesome" with a woman has anything to do with "unconscious gay desire for each other." Yes, if that's the route you take, do you and may all your guesses be right. I mean, really, totally straight dudes have threesomes with hot women and their focus is totally and only on her and my experiences with these things tend to say that if "Ralph" and "Eddie" kinda/sorta had the hots for each other, they would get around to doing something about it and not involving a woman since you don't have to be a different sexuality to know what a lot of women think about anyone not being straight and then you're gonna ask her to do what? Have sex with two guys? When having sex with one guy can be bad enough?

    It's true that some guys have been in the moment during a threesome and a dick got fondled or, gasp, even sucked; it's true that some guys have been... strongly suggested by women to take Eddie's cock and get to sucking it - and if he does it, it may or may not have anything to do with Ralph having any unconscious gay desire and, by the way, if they're unconscious, how would he know? Ralph could be blowing Eddie just because his wife asked or told him to because it would make her happy and some men will do anything to make and keep her happy.

    I've been in so many MFM threesomes that I can't even count them; more often than not, the other guy was straight and, as straight guys tend to do in this situation, they make it clear that there will be no funny stuff happening between us and, okay, but what I know is that "funny stuff" can, does, and will happen under certain situations but, okay, we'll play by your rules, home puppy. More often than not, nothing has happened between the two of us outside of some incidental body contact while maneuvering to get at the pussy but, sure, I've been surprised by the other guy suddenly fondling me or going down on me and, yes, I've heard a wife/girlfriend/the other chick strongly suggest that it would be very hot for her if we were to blow each other and, as a bisexual guy, hell, yeah - I'm always down for sucking some dick but, ah, I don't know about the other guy but it's always fun to wait and see how he's going to react, what he's gonna say and what, if anything, he's going to do.

    Up to and including getting up, getting dressed, and leaving and, welp, more pussy for me. I maintain that it can be a gateway to bisexuality since, again, I've been with guys in this situation who either finally got to let his inner cocksucker out to play or he's discovering that sucking dick ain't as bad as everyone says it is - and it won't be the last time he'll be doing it... and a woman may or may not be present and one of the things I've heard from "certain guys" is that they really do believe that it's not gay if it's a threesome and, yeah, that's unrealistic...
     
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