Is Marriage Just Crap ?

Asians are so conservative it hurts, but white men tend to want white women making Russians more popular for adopting babies as well, which cost around $70,000.oo last time I checked for a healthy blue eyed blond haired baby boy. Girls are cheaper. It isn't hedonism that is killing white people, it is their culture compelling them to organize like chickens. Wall Street has no use for lovey dovey people and the Pentagon doesn't either. Past a certain point, the money takes on a life of its own and the chickens will even eat each other alive.

 

You in the market for a Russian baby, woo?

 

No, I just like to get an idea of how little I'm worth these days. All you need is love and napalm in Libertarian paradise by the sea, where its illegal to join the Mickey Mouse Club.

 

Well with stupid sentences like that you aren't doing yourself any favors, woosey. Come on, man. You're too negative.

 

Negativity is for people who don't have guns pointed at their heads. The US has fewer gun laws than most third world countries, the worst social record in the developed world, and the idiots keep voting for whoever advertises the most and demanding someone give them better candidates. California no longer has a fire season, and our glorious leader's response is to blame the Chinese.

 

I wouldn't even point a gun at your head. I'd shoot your knees out first. Heh. Motherfuckers always don't do this in the movies then the killer gets a 40min energy boost when their knees should have been blown out on the floor. Can't run without legs.

 

Most aim for the center of the mass, but many prefer to aim lower.

 

Centre of mass is in the rookies training manual isn't it?

 

Yeah, the Neo-Nazis have their own training manuals.

 

Well if they're shooting knee caps out I'd say the manuals pretty good.

 

you can in a movie.

 

Is sexless relationship going to last - Should I marry my best friend? We have so much we have love and trust and friendship just no spark from him to me, I want him.. just he not want me as I am...No spark or desire from him...Only desire for my barefeet. REALLY I want to hear from those married or in LT relationship.

 

My view on this is that some people get married to the "wrong" person for them . Until you find that special person its difficult to describe that feeling in the gut . I have been happily married now for 23 years and been with my wife for 30 . Sex wise , yes we went through a rut some years ago like many couples with kids but we have turned this around and got very much more adventurous and experimental as we got older . For example we find roleplaying, has added a fun factor into the bedroom .We go out every weekend and socialise and still go clubbing albeit in a club designed for the over 30s . Yes I still find other women attractive as my wife does other men as we don't go around with blinkers on but its nothing more than receiving and giving compliments and platonic friendships, general socialising with a bit of flirting thrown in .

So marriage doesn't have to be "crap" if you find that right person .

 

Of course you're referring to a distant time past when when things were much different than now. A time when you could speak to a woman in public and not be glared at or accused of harassment if you dared a compliment. A time when people returned ordinary niceties with a smile and perhaps a hello .

That day is gone and now that we do indeed live in an " F-You " society the odds of fairy tales of this sort remain as distinct impossibilities for most young men.

I agree it isn't crap if properly matched but marriage itself is going the way of the Model T if you get my drift. Society increasingly finds no need for this antiquated institution which time has passed by.

 

I do agree with some of your post in that we do live in a throw away society. However with the greatest of respect , I disagree that my views are old fashioned and are from a bygone era.

Just putting my relationship counselling hat on. The fact is whether its in a marriage, same sex marriage or just a relationship, if the chemistry is not quite right between 2 people, then that relationship or marriage is not going to flourish and will end some time either sooner or later . That's why many of us tend to go through the dating process whether its through online or the traditional meet somebody at a bar etc. to find that person . I also appreciate not everyone wants a relationship either but just sex through pure physical attraction . However going back to my point and I will just use my own case here as reference. I have had 21 partners ( not including one night stands ) with a relationship. Out of those 21 relationships, 20 have ended because either I thought, or my partner at that time thought, that the chemistry between us wasn't quite right and it was better to end it and move on.

So if/when you find that right person marriage can still be good .

Again just my views on the subject .

 

I sure hope not. There are a couple of older women at my work who are single and are obviously worried about dying alone. It's sad to watch. Unfortunately I too am starting to lose faith in my ability to find a like-minded compatible mate.

 

I believe there is someone out there for everyone. Just keep your channels open ie carry on going out with friends and socialising and or carry on with online dating . If you do go out socialising then check out the many eye contact videos on You Tube. Eye contact in my experience is usually the start .

But don't give up .

 

Tired cliches offer nothing but really are just like marriage itself a decaying relic of the past . We've heard them so many times haven't we ? " When one door closes another one opens", " there's someone for everyone " , " no man is an island unto himself " , oh I could go on cause there's many more but these are enough for sampling.
The fact is we don't live in those times anymore .
It's perhaps comforting to walk around with such an unrealistic world view as this however it's just BS.

I repeat, total BS .

If it were true why are millions of Americans living alone ?

Consider this excerpt from " The Hill ":
" Forty-two percent of Americans live without a spouse or partner, up from 39 percent in 2007, according to the Pew Research Center’s analysis of U.S. Census Bureau figures. For those under the age of 35 years old, 61 percent live without a spouse or partner, up 5 percentage points from a decade ago.

The higher number of spouseless households comes as the marriage rate declines precipitously. Just half of American adults are married, down from 72 percent in 1960."

In addition another article states that 28% or about 11 million people 65 and older live in conditions of isolation.

Now let's look at millennials ages 23 to 38 , the picture isn't any better with 3 in ten saying they always or often feel lonely and a whopping 22% saying they have no friends at all.

I'm not proud of what I'm reporting here , it bodes ill for our society, our country and ultimately for us. The breakdown in societal cohesion is approaching rapidly . Quality relationships of all kinds have always been the glue that binds us as a people. The prospects for our world where trust no longer exists, no relationships are to be found are horrific when we consider the consequences.

 

Your culture is different than mine .I am from the UK and you are from America .

We have a reality TV show called Love Island ( that gets people together) you have Temptation Island ( Encourages splits in existing relationships)

So a lot of what you said may apply to America but not to my part of the UK .

But in essence I don't disagree with what you are saying about America but it doesn't apply to the part of the UK where I live .

 

Well I don't know about the statistics... But I'd guess they did mirror the U.S. actually. How do you know they don't? What indications do you see that there isn't a growing sense of isolation and loneliness?