I might have used a word other than 'arse' but I really like posting here and don't want to get banned. :lol:
No, it means the same thing. My point was, I was tempted to be much more harsh, at the risk of getting in trouble here. You were definitely on target there.
I'm not beeing a retard i just gave my opinion based on her statement (the bold one) do you really think that a person who is asking someone else is she is "going against all she believes in" really knows whait she believes in?????