Is it weird to fantasize about an ex?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Hipme, Oct 22, 2021.

  1. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    "..I only hope she remembers I was there....."

    That's so common amongst us male-type years later in life.Do they?

    Now cue the song "In Your Wildest Dreams" by the Moody Blues.

    "... but in your wildest dreams do you remember...."

    Or by the (now dead) Tim Buckley,

    "Sometimes I wonder, just for awhile, do you ever,....... remember me."

    So, ladies on the thread, contribute if you would, to the discussion of our worries.
  2. Twogigahz

    Twogigahz Members

    Sure she remembers me, I was the third one to take her virginity !!
  3. Candy Gal

    Candy Gal Lifetime Supporter Super Moderator

    I have no ex.
    I was married at 16
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  4. Captain Scarlet

    Captain Scarlet Lifetime Supporter Super Moderator

    I still remember my first very well as we never finished as such and so I never got closure .

    She was forced to move away when her fathers job got relocated from the North to the Midlands . WE just lost touch .
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  5. Piobaire

    Piobaire Senior Village Idiot

    Clearly, you've never met my ex.

  6. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    Now that's COLD-BLOODED, Piob! But, "if the shoe fits, wear it' I suppose.
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  7. Piobaire

    Piobaire Senior Village Idiot

    If you think that's cold-blooded, well; you should meet my ex.
  8. Twogigahz

    Twogigahz Members

    She does have attractive claws. Kinda reminds me of my mother in law....
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  9. JudeLawless

    JudeLawless Members

    Not weird at all. You were attracted to them at some point.
  10. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    Yes, but that was in the larva stage. And puppies are always cute, then they turn into dogs, some of whom are.........
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  11. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    Sorry, Jude, I misunderstood you on my last post (but it was funny).

    You were responding to the original question, "to fantasize about an ex". And you're right, whether the outcome was bad or good, or they were 'the one that got away' or why did I do that, or whatever. Memories persist.

    Hoping some of the female-lady-types can offer their recollections on this thread. Surely some of us males weren't just stops-on-the-way.
  12. BarefootJason

    BarefootJason Members

    It’s such a weird coincidence to run across this topic today. I’ve been thinking almost non-stop lately about a former fuck buddy. We were perfect in the sack together. To this day still she is the best fuck I have ever had.

    I have done basic internet searches to find her but maybe she is no longer alive, or has simply dropped off the grid. Who knows?

    Have not seen her or fucked her in over 30 years yet I am horny as hell for her right now.
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  13. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    Got a couple (ok three) of those myself. Damn they were good to be with. Remember every moment.
  14. Scharff

    Scharff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    From time to time I get a sext from my first FWB with a pic of either her sucking cock, or just good blowjob porn. She uses it to tease me and flirt BUT it does trigger memories of some of those times together.

    One of my favorites was once she was sitting in a wooden, high backed chair like a formal dining room chair. Nude, with her fingers in her pussy and masturbating. She had slumped down as she got close and I finally stopped sucking her nipples, straddled the chair and took her mouth. Stepped forward a little so she couldn't really pull back, reached down and hard pinched her wet nipples. I didn't realize she was that close to cumming but she started to suck my cock very deep and strong and I couldn't hold back. It was one of the rare times we both came together and she had no choice but to swallow and slobber all over me while she finished. I recall stepping back from her face and realizing she had pulled her knees up against my back as she climaxed. I did have to clean that chair of her juices. And she wasn't done. She fingered another sitting on the toilet.
  15. Deejay88

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  16. oldguynurse

    oldguynurse Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    One time with a fwb, we'd been around the block numerous times, but she was sitting up in bed against the headboard. I straddled her chest, pinned her head against the headboard and pushed into her mouth. At first I went too deep and there were sounds of protest and slapping at my legs, so I pulled back a little and came. Then there were just small, quiet mewing noises and holding my hips. Ah, memories.....
    Last edited: Feb 18, 2022
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  17. Deejay88

    Deejay88 Members

    So hot
  18. dkcurious

    dkcurious Supporters HipForums Supporter

    I don't think it's uncommon if the sex was good or better. Or it could just be nostalgia of stuff the individual did that someone that your currently with doesn't.
  19. Hipme

    Hipme Members

    Sex for me with my ex was off the chart amazing. Don't know if I know of a couple that could have been any more compatible sexually than we were. Nothing was off the table. I am pretty sure we could've written a book. Our sex life gave a new definition to the word "incredible".
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  20. Deejay88

    Deejay88 Members

    Would love to hear or read about it some time when u have time
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