Is it possible to make love with a stranger?

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  1. Totally Yoda

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    I can't. I have to get to know them 1st. And that takes time which is fine.
     
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  2. I think it is. On a couple occasions over the years I've met a woman at a bar and we hit it off, after which she came home with me. It began as a typical hook up until we were connected and began realizing we were truly connected more than just sexually. Both cases we ended up living together for a period of time.
     
  3. rick181au

    rick181au Guest Lifetime Supporter

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    My wife has, many a time, I have as well but no where as much as my wife has.
     
  4. Jmack

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    There is a big difference from making love and sex.
    With that being said, yes it is possible.
    I have found that it's been more making love when I first started dating/meeting a girl.
    For some reason it just ends up being quickies or just plain sex after a while. Seems most just comfortable with fucking. No need to impress.
     
  5. Desera_xoxo

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    If you're willing, anything's possible.
     
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  6. nudistguyny

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    How does someone make love to a person that they do not love ?
    Can you have sex with someone and feel a deeper bond to that person ? Yes you can. But does that mean that you love them ? Love is much more then just a physical bond between a couple. .
     
  7. Alice in SC

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    I have with a couple guys that I had only known for a hour or a little more. ❤
     
  8. AstroShark

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    I don't know but I have had encounters with guys in the past that were so intense that it felt like I was making love.
     
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  9. Ted Jackson

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    Oh it's fun strangers best to get!!
     
  10. Captain Scarlet

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    Call me old fashioned but I have to love someone first .

    I have tried it in the past and it didnt work . I couldnt wait to get away .:confused::eek::eek:
     
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  11. Ted Jackson

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    It's not cheating if you allow. It's good exercise
     
  12. Ted Jackson

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    I love dating willing women.
     
  13. Slacker Of Krypton

    Slacker Of Krypton Senior Member

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    Years ago, before I was married I had sex with a woman who was a stranger. (I'd helped her get a ride home, she was drunk) In the process she gave me her number which I was sure she wouldn't have otherwise. But I called the next day and she invited me over. In a short time we were fucking on her living room floor. I say fucking because that's all it probably could have been. I did lick her pussy and she sucked my cock which I suppose is more intimate than simple penetration. It felt urgent for sure and I got off in a big way but I didn't know her so the intimacy that comes from knowing someone and sharing experiences with them just wasn't there. I guess I'd say no, it isn't possible. We saw each other a few more times but nothing really came of it.
     
  14. John1971

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    You can fuck someone you're in love with (ie, hot, fast, rough sex), but even if you're taking it slow and going through all the motions/foreplay, its not `making love' if you don't love them.
     
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  15. Dude111

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    Ya if your sad and need love im sure you can do it with just about anyone.... (EVEN THOSE YOU DONT KNOW)
     
  16. As I age, I’m simultaneously becoming more particular and less desirable. No, I need to be in love.
     
  17. Dude111

    Dude111 An Awesome Dude HipForums Supporter

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    I hear ya buddy
     
  18. Kimmiescock

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    I think everyone at one time or another has had sex with a person they just met and only know their name, and while it sometimes turns out well and becomes an ongoing thing for them, other times it becomes an embarassing time they'd like to forget. But as far as the term"Making love" with a stranger, I don't think it's actually making love at that level yet until two people really get to know one another and fall in love, then the sex can become making love. Otherwise it's just fucking for fun and the sake of getting laid.
     
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  19. Kimmiescock

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    True, and at the time it may seem like making love in a person's mind, when it's just plain fucking.
     
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  20. You me and coffee

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    I don't think so. There's a difference between fucking and making love.
     
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