Is it possible to find only one woman beautiful or only one man handsome

Yeah true, but my point was that when a guy tells his girl he thinks she's beautiful, because he knows he's talking with a girl he might actually be implying the WHOLE package, and not just physical beauty in the context of that sentence.

But yeah this is one area of a relationship you cannot be vague on, and it's also the same area where one's own self esteem can affect whether you can accept someone telling you you're beautiful/handsome or not.

Some people take it as patronizing past a certain point of being complemented.

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Also keep in mind that sometimes when guys are rating a girl physically, they just wanna tap that. The appeal visually doesn't mean they'll commit in any way shape and form, I doubt the middle school girls who tried to put you down took that into consideration.

Remember middle school students ARE the ultimate trolls in real life, they'll say stuff to egg others on to feel superior and whatnot. (I wouldn't be surprised if trolling on the internet was invented by a middle schooler honestly)

 

I like to think I only have eyes for my man, because I do really as in I don't notice other guys etc when I'm out and about or whatever..also I think there is a difference from thinking someone is hot to having actual sexual attraction towards them and I think thats where me and my man are with eachother, we only have eyes for eachother because we are only sexually attracted to eachother, but other people are still 'pretty' 'hot' etc just not in a sexual 'get in my bed and then marry me' way

 

Well, enjoy it and A LOT! Because it doesn't happen to everyone. If you get - know it - and take complete advantage of it.

 

When you are in a serious relationship, the expression of your partner being the only beautiful one, can indeed be real. What they mean is, they find the "whole" of you beautiful, they are not referring just to how you look aesthetically, they are feeling your inner beauty as well as outer.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it is a true saying. Yes, it doesn't mean that you both won't find others attractive, but there is a huge difference in attraction and deep connected love. I can look at other men and see them as "fit" but no one is more beautiful to me than my husband. It will likely be the same for you both.

You have probably both seen others (without looking) who you find attractive, but that is as far as it goes once your heart belongs to another.

 

I agree with many statements here. On one hand you have to consider the difference between physical and emotional attractions. My wife and I are very deeply in love and can't imagine being with another. I'll admit I'm not a Brad Pitt look-a-like but she tells me almost daily that I am the sexiest man on earth! The emotional can and does easily override everything else and thus the statement arises "I only have eyes for you". We are NOT delusional however and both recognize that each can appreciate a physically attractive person be it of the same or opposite sex. At times when we are out we enjoy "people watching" and comparing who is hot or not. Once when we were out there was this woman with the most amazing butt either of us had ever seen. My wife turns to me and asked "What are you thinking when you look at a woman like that? Is it about sex?" I answered "No, I just appreciate a beautiful form. Just like I would a piece of art or a 1969 Camaro RS."

 

My husband feels that way about me - however this doesn't mean that he is never ever going to find another aesthetically pleasing woman "hot" upon glancing, - of course he is, it is human nature!

Same for me, I love him and I am deeply in love with him, but show me a picture of, say, Vin Diesel with a bare chest and my eyes light up for a few seconds because he's hot!

Everyone can window shop, the difference is whether you choose to go inside to get the goods. When your man says he only has eyes for you, he means as the whole package, but don't fool yourself that he will never ever glance at another woman, or that he doesn't find *insert name of celebrity* hot because that is just unrealistic. As long as he doesn't act on it then there is nothing to worry about!

 

I like that analogy. The one we use is "it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home to eat!" Lol

 

I have a hard time not seeing beautiful women anywhere.
They all so sexy.

 

No wonder men don't know what to say to women.

Here we have guy, who doesn't flirt with other women, doesn't eye other women. He says something nice to his girlfriend and her reaction is to distrust him, quiz his friends and family and finally resort to inquiring of the internet whether his telling her "I have eyes only for you" is somehow doing her wrong.

I'd advise the OP drop this nice guy and enter a relationship with a jerk, where she can get full use of her highly developed skill at suspicion and distrust.

 

Yep.

And it's possible that all that lieing is wasted on the OP, cause she sort of sounds.... bitchy.

I mean, with the open "I don't trust him" and all.

 

Is a good analogy too. If I see a hot guy I sure as hell am going to look but will never buy the goods and will always go home to eat :2thumbsup:

 

Bon appetite!

 

No, there are heaps of beautiful looking woman I have either met or seen in my lifetime & wished I could either have sex with them or even just to kiss them or hug them.

 

LMFAO. Women intuition.

 

lmfao isn't women intuition great. they sure know what they're doing.

 

As do you just saying..

 

What happens when dealing with girls/women (because this scenario applies to middle school and high school girls as well as grown women) is that the guy tripped an emotional red flag.

Not to be sexist or anything, but the BIGGEST factor in what a woman does is their emotions, not logic. As a general rule this is true for everybody about even small things like what to wear or eat.

But in the context of love and attraction and thus sex, girls and women will allow a guy into the "relationship worthy" category if certain emotional triggers are hit. In my view, this is especially true for girls who have not fulfilled maslow's hierarchy of needs, which is why you see high drama scenarios and unhealthy relationships, with abusive guys who fill some of those needs in exchange for sex/drugs.

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A women's intuition, is all emotional based and instinct based, which is why it's not always logical and I believe it misfires in social scenarios in modern day, and lots of really good guys unknowingly trigger the red flags either early on or later in the dating-relationship.

Guys who are really timid and don't know how to be calm, collected and social around women in casual dialogue tend to freak women out and cause them to run for the hills.

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Now about boys/men, there was a scientific study released this week, about reading the opposite sex, and it is now proven that guys misinterpret acts and social gestures of "friendliness and romantic interest" that girls/women give out.
To other girls/women it's obviously CLEAR that there's a difference between the two and they have no problem telling the difference between a friendly gesture VS romantic flirting.

A lot of the time the disconnect, I think, happens when the guy misreads, assumes flirtation, and the in question never intended a friendly act to be interpreted as romantic interest/flirtation, and immediately pulls back to send a clear message to the guy non-verbally that they weren't interested in that way.

Guy's left wondering, thinking it was a mixed signal

Girl's wondering why the guy misinterpreted, and she's freaking out that he's gonna start rumors about her or she got herself a clinger. So I think especially because of the later situation, girls decide to just completely cut ties, because I think evolution has told womankind that that's the safest course of action.

Perhaps, that's part of the reason why most women who are great female verbal communicators are lacking, they didn't survive long enough to pass that trait down to the modern day female.

 

wow, what's next, a study to prove that men have penises and women don't?

except they don't cut ties. they just keep wanting to hang out, as just friends.

 

To the latter statement, I say, not always. But you're right sometimes, they do remain in orbit. In that case, I recommend the guy cut ties.

 

lol. i call bullshit for both of you...

haven't been married for long?