is it ok to hug and kiss your boss?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by bonita95, Aug 2, 2013.

  1. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    just go with youre fellings bonita
     
  2. bonita95

    bonita95 Member

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    as in my instinct?
     
  3. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    yes, its good to get views off other people but its youre instincts that count
     
  4. bonita95

    bonita95 Member

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    sounds dangerous but i could try it for a day or 2.
     
  5. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    why not drop little hints to how you feel and see what his reactions are
     
  6. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

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    hmmm. 31 year old dad buying dresses for an 18 year old girl.

    ya ok


    (fucking good for him I guess)
     
  7. bonita95

    bonita95 Member

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    he came home from a date a few weeks ago and then said he gave up on dates. his wife died so he's timid still he said :(

    it was a father-type way i think. he has a son but not a daughter. he is great at buying dresses :)
     
  8. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Wait, you're only 18??? :eek: I retract my post from earlier.
     
  9. bonita95

    bonita95 Member

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    i'm adult and 2 of my friends own an apartment. the even invited me to share rent!
     
  10. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    You're an adult in a legal sense. I wouldn't suggest trying to jump into a relationship with a man that much older than you when you're only 18. Don't be in such a rush to grow up.
     
  11. bonita95

    bonita95 Member

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    true. only in my dreams i guess :prettyplease:
     
  12. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    what celebrity does he resemble?
     
  13. bonita95

    bonita95 Member

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    vince vaughn but a bald head and i think taller than vv :sunny: like 6feet8.
     
  14. Voyage

    Voyage Noam Sayin

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    that's a brave assumption...
     
  15. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    I still haven't gotten any impression from you not to support your relationship with your "boss", OP.

    As for the age difference, I'm even older than your heartthrob and I'm with a partner "around" the same age as you. Seriously, age ain't nothing but a number, and Aaliyah(R.I.P.) even sang about that.

    The world today somehow wants to regulate even love, but I disagree with that. If you two are mutually attracted to each other, then why would it make sense to give up on that potential?

    I wish you all the best Bonita. :)
     
  16. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Good point.



    OP, idk. I've always been into men older than me, so I get where you're coming from. I agree, "age ain't nothin' but a number." I also think a teenager (in most cases...) doesn't have the life experience to be taking on a 31 year old man and his kid.
     
  17. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    spot on alternative thinker
     
  18. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    *tips hat* :)
     
  19. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    Just to put the age gap into perspective, dad is 31. Babysitter is 18. Child is eight.

    If babysitter pursued a younger person with the same age gap, she'd be going after a 5-year-old.
     
  20. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Couples with WAY bigger age differences MARRY all the time, just to offer my own opinion on the matter.
     

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