Is it ok to get an Erection?

Discussion in 'Nudism, Naturism' started by Cal Bareit, May 27, 2019.

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Is it ok to get an Erection around other nudists, like at a nude beach or nudists resort?

  1. Yes, it's fine and totally acceptable. Let it swing & bounce.

  2. Yes, but you should still try to hide it.

  3. No way Jose' - Always cover it with a towel etc.

  4. No, but it's acceptable because, well.. erections happen.

  5. No. Not at all. Women would be offended.

  6. No. Not at all. Men would see it as homosexual.

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  1. Cal Bareit

    Cal Bareit Members

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    Hey there everyone. Would like to get both male and female input here. I have been interested in visiting a local nudist resort, but I'm apprehensive about going because I'm not totally confident that I can control my erections. So I'm wondering if getting a full-on boner in front of other nudists is ok, or would I be seen as a perv? It's quite natural for a man to get an erection. Most men don't even need to be horny to get one. It can happen just by laying in the sun and feeling relaxed. But still, I don't want people to judge me or even worse complain to the staff and then be confronted by some 20 something kid about my hard-on. Certainly this kinda thing happens in nudist situations like at a nude resort or a nude beach. What is the expectation? If I start to get erect, should I hide it with my towel or just be comfortable with others seeing me hard?? Is there some kind of nudist etiquette regarding erections??
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

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  3. tumbling.dice

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    If you start getting erect just masturbate furiously until you orgasm, then it'll go away.
     
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  4. soulcompromise

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    Alternately, masturbate or have intercourse before your nudie time.
     
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  5. Cal Bareit

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    :dizzy: LOL Oh dear. I certainly don't want that to happen.
     
  6. Cal Bareit

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    :smirk: yeah that would work for 20 minutes and then it would wake up. Especially after being stimulated like that.
     
  7. That would be me lol, but if i just looked the person in the face maybe not. I know if i look down it would be up, wanting to talk. Lol
     
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  8. AreYouForScuba?

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    The answer is not in your poll. Yes it's OK, but etiquette is to always cover or conceal it. I've seen plenty of guys with semi's and that doesn't seem to be much of an issue. Stay at or near the Fibonacci curve and you should be fine. I remember my first times at nudist beaches and resorts when I was about 12 and yeah, it was an issue. As an adult I have never worried about this. You will quickly learn it is't a real problem and that there is nothing sexual about nudity even if you feel there is right now. What you don't want to do is end up on a sex offender registry because of some easily offended person and an over zealous cop. It's important to remember every jurisdictions has laws concerning indecent exposure that, for males, often require a visible erection. If that's something you are looking for, go be nude at one of the Hedonism resorts, the Folsom Street Leather Fair in San Francsico or the Beaches of Cape D'ange, France, which are the only places I know of that seem to tolerate erections, even masturbation, and sex in public.
     
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  9. this is fun

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    You would notice it if you had a hard on.
    Before you go to the nude beach take a trip to the loo and relieve yourself so you don't have a tough time getting rid of one.
    Try and do what you feel is comfortable.
    If an erection makes you embarrassed then do things that will help relieve it.
    For example if you get one and you get embarrassed jump in the pool or run to the sea and pretend you are swimming in there.
    Cold water will make it go away. You might be able to pee it out.
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

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    or actually swim, especially if the water is over your head.
     
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  11. Cal Bareit

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    I would be too embarrassed to look people in the eye as I was getting a semi. Oh and same here.. Them noticing or me looking down at it would only make it go all the way up.
     
  12. Cal Bareit

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    I think you have a good point. I think I would get used to being nude, but I also know that once I got comfortable with it, feeling relaxed and minus the anxiety, I would get hard especially in the hot tub. Folsom is not my thing. I may be a walking hard-on but I'm also not a perv. LOL But hey.. the Beaches of Cape D'ange, France. Now that sounds interesting. I'd finally be in a place were I could feel totally free & relaxed. Really too bad the nudist culture in America is such a contradiction; Nudism/Naturism is all about shedding societal hang-up, abandoning modesty, being non-judgmental and of course no body-shaming. - And yet this same culture also shames men for getting an erection, something that is perfectly natural. Men are made to feel like their dicks are bad and evil.
     
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  13. Cal Bareit

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    Getting into the pool or the sea is a good suggestion.
     
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    If you get a semi pee it out.
    As i suggested relieve yourself before hand and you won’t get a raging boner.
     
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  15. Boozercruiser

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    I think if you can hang a Porn Hub hat or something similar, on your Dick then at least that should hide your Donger, be O.K. and you will undoubtably make a big impression.
    If you can't hang your hat on it and the hat slips off, then that is likely to be only a semi stiffie and that should be O.K. as well.

    I am pleased to be of service with this advice.:grinning::grinning:

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  16. Biggles_Nude!

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    It is good practice to have a long, hard, satisfying masturbation session before getting out and about nude. In a nudist resort, in the privacy of accommodation or even a tent, that's when you can play and get all stiff and horny. Once the stimulation is over and done with (even to the point of exhaustion and beyond), it is most unlikely to return, unless you find yourself sensitive to the bodies of other nudists, which can indeed give rise to a boner; this was my predicament many decades ago when I first became involved in nudist resorts. Over time (years and years), erections weren't such a big deal with everybody gathering around the BBQ and filling themselves with grog -- one thing leads to another.
     
  17. Joshua Van

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    Nudist are also called naturists which implies we are into nature / natural life. So wether your pienis is soft or hard it's still natural. i can not understand why its an issue. People think if you are hard you are horny that isn't true at all it can happen for any number of reasons. Most nudist/ naturist place have an aversion to nudity being equated to sex. But sex is also natural people need to remember without sex none of us would be here. I am of the mind that if we truly want to be free then you mite see a boner or somone masterbating ore even sex its all natural and beautiful if you don't like it dont look
     
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  18. I'minmyunderwear

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    if i'm hard, i'm horny. if i'm soft, i'm horny.
     
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  19. new Athenian

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    Personally I'd never go to a nude beach because it's usually those who aren't physically fit who feel compelled to place themselves on exhibit. This is all well and good if one enjoys this sort of thing however it's not for me. With all that being said however I think going to a nude beach and then being offended because he or she saw and erection is somewhat ridiculous.
     
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  20. Joshua Van

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    i would love to go to nudist places no mater how the people there look. unfortunately none near me. and in all my life i have never been able to stop from getting hard so they wouldn't let me stay anyway to me its dumb
     
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