Is it normal that my boyfriend always wants to give me oral sex?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now. our sex life was pretty standard the first few years of dating, but over the past year or so it has pretty much exclusively consisted of him either fingering me or mostly him going down on me until I climax and then he gets off
immediately once he enters me afterward (sometimes instantly and even occasionally beforehand, but never more than a few thrusts). I don’t really mind it because I always get my fix and he claims that he gets off to getting me off, but is this really enough for him? In previous relationships, I feel like I was always the one giving oral 9 out of 10 times (which never really bothered me either) and sex was always a much longer affair. Does anyone have any input about this or share similar experiences? This is new to me and I am just wondering if it’s more common than I think. Thanks!

 

Some of us guys just like eating pussy. We like what it does to our partners and do what we can to satisfy her needs. It can get us so excited that we are overly ready when penetration occurs. Some of us are so dedicated to her that we will go back to licking her after we've cum.

If you want to show your appreciation, an after cum blowjob is a great reward.

 

After some fun foreplay, I like to enter her for a few strokes, then pull out and eat her pussy until she starts to cum She has the most outstanding orgasms from oral sex, so I like to get her started that way. Then I enter her again and pound away. Last time, she rested a few minutes and then wanted me to rub her clit, so I substituted oral and brought her to another less intense orgasm. That's just what we enjoy.

 

"After some fun foreplay, I like to enter her for a few strokes, then pull out and eat her pussy until she starts to cum"

I like to start that way, too. It gets her juices flowing. If flushed out any staleness and she has sweet nectar for my tongue.

 

If you're concerned he's not getting enough attention, switch it up sometimes, who cums first, or maybe try a 69.. If he blows that quickly in you, he must really be getting off going down on you, a compliment..... It's also understandably intense for him, knowing he can cum when he wants to, knowing you've already gotten off - what strokes feel best for him, fast or slow, deep, shallow... The pressure is off - having to hold off from cumming prematurely. I think after a while trying to hold back dulls the orgasm. And really - for a guy to cum it doesn't always take a lot of time if he's really excited and wants to - sex is a lot of trying NOT to cum or not get too excited too early...uh....I'll think about baseball.....or look at the clock..... If it works for both of you - just have fun.

 

Must be a bloody yank, who thinks of baseball why having sex, OMG

 

OK OK OK. Football. As a distraction...

 

That happens to me a lot! I get so damn hot and horny with foreplay and eating her into orgasm after orgasm, squirting everywhere. If I stop and slide it in her soaked pussy right away, most of the time I don't last 10 seconds!! many times I bury it to my balls and wiggle on my 1st stroke and empty everything inside her!! Foreplay and oral turn me on that much also.

 

Thanks everyone for sharing! It’s good to hear other perspectives from both men and women with similar experiences.

 

If he really loves to lick you into orgasms - count your blessings!!! Not all guys feel that way. I DO !!! As Twogigahz said above ………… try a 69. My wife and I do that a LOT and it get's both of us on fire. I usually get her off several times before she makes me go off - and I like it that way. When she's going off like sky-rockets & squirting, it makes me even hotter!! We mix in some vibrators too for some variety of sensations.

Consider this: if you both get off by 69-ing each other, the "pressure" will be off for him and then you can most likely have him last longer when he gets inside you for round #2!!! You'll already be warmed up and wet, and you can get him hard again for him penetrating you. Take your time and ENJOY !!!

 

If u are asking abt cunnilingus babe, over our end of the world quite a large proportion of conservative men here do not like to go down on their women ...reason, is very simple...they find it very unhygienic and the pleasure is largely enjoyed by their girl and not themselves...hence they don't like to go down to lick their girl's pussy...they prefer to receive bbbjs from their girls instead...how selfish these guys are ....wanting to receive but not give in return ...sex i believe must always be enjoyed by both parties not just one-sided, thats not the way anything shd work, most of all sex imho

 

AND THIS IS A PROBLEM? WHY?????

 

Who cares? If he like is it, just chill out and have fun!

 

You should be lucky because he loves to pleasure you most. I would be really happy if my wife let me give her oral.

 

If a woman is clean and fresh, I’m gonna always want to go down her, ALWAYS!

 

Be thankful babe going down on you and giving you so much pleasure is enough to make him so excited that he has to blow his load very quickly, eating pussy is my favorite sex, I love making girls cum on my tongue so much I usually don't last more than a few minutes after she's cum at least a couple of times before I have to shoot my load.

 

It’s normal. Go with it.

 

Some men just love giving oral sex to women. Be happy he makes you cum before taking care of himself.

 

I always love to give oral to my wife and see her orgasming from my action. Also for me that really a very intimate experience which is very precious. We were doing oral for many years but in the last couple of years my wife was not into oral. So I dont force her.
If you find you derive pleasure from it then go ahead and allow your bf to give you that intimate experience.

 

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