is it just about banging or is there more?

So I finally decided to have sex again... because I found a guy I have feelings for, I think... or at least I really like him. He's a drummer in this band and they're getting big and he's just so HOT and cute and... well I went on tour with them over the week-end and it happened... and it was really good... really amazing... really fucking wild... altho at some point I had to go puke (drunk) but he cleaned up for me!! How sweet!! And we hated the fucking condom so he couldn't come inside of me but came on my boobs and on my butt and I don't know where else...

But anyways 2 days later I hang out with them again... fucking groupie... no seriously they're my friends now tho... and we go to his place... fuck again... could hardly walk the next day... and last night we had the wildest house party ever and they were there and 30 people were there and we had sex again... and a little accident which I posted on oral and anal sex... but this time it was different, less wild more... intimate... like instead of being like porn it was more... close to each other and affectionate... and I surprised myself telling him I didn't wanna leave... to France over the summer... like... am I falling for him? Because I cannot stop thinking about him and what we are... like are we fuck friends? Are we dating? He hasn't taken me out yet... and we only make-out and fuck when we're drunk... the rest of the time... I don't know... he's busy... practicing...

I'm just not into this banging situation. This morning the guys sleeping downstairs were like... Tyler banged the French gurl! I wanna fucking kill myself right now blah blah blah... and we were sleeping on the floor next door and heard them and I yelled: I heard that thanks but Tyler didn't say anything like... does he even care? I want him to care. I can't be fucking someone who doesn't care.

I'm a mess right now.

 

:leaving: you should get beter its your life lol

 

no, there is more.


at least there should be, I'm sure this guy is very immature and bangs lots of women, so just be careful, I'm pretty sure he could get tired soon...

 

yeah... unless he falls for me

 

Lmao blatently just banging. Even if there was more you wouldnt remember what it was the next day!

Joking obv.

 

hmmm...hard to say.
my advice, stay mysterious and seduce him, don't be toooo easy, tease him a bit, let him fall for you. whatever you do, don't have that ' where are we going, let's talk about our future' talk - the chances are it's not good for the wild sex thing it kinda kills it!

 

Don't lose your respect for yourself, love, or he will you. I agree with paintitblack..don't come on too easy, mate.

 

It doesnt sounds good darling.
If you are looking for someone who care for you it isnt going to happen through some musician who are out and about all the time and are very used to just bang girls.
Dont go see him any more and see if he calls you for something else than bang you.
See if he invites you out.
I am pretty sure that he is so used at doing it htis easy way, that he dont even remember what else you can do with a girl, like talk and going out.
Maybe seeing him more isnt a good idea since you are just growing an attachement and dependency who will make you suffer later on because he will deceive you and will not answer your expectations.
Prends le large. Make distance, let him come to you.
If he doesnt, then at least you know he didnt care.

 

Yeah, it's really hard for me to empathize with women who treat men like they don't exist until they get really sexually desperate and then bareback some dude because they are startruck he bangs a stick on a cymbal in front of a bunch of loud people.

There is no way for me to know about this guy in particular, but I know if I was a musician or some other kind of occupation that draws groupies, no way in hell I would go through the trouble of differentiating between one and the other. Plus, it'd be my chance to experiment sexually - an opportunity most men are denied.

Best of luck.

 

wow

I feel great

 

He's a drummer in a band and the only time you guys are having sex is when you're drunk. I'm sorry to say but it doesn't seem like he's falling for you. It seems like he considers you a fuck friend or even a groupie.

This guy has probably had sex with plenty of girls... You'll just get hurt if you think you're the one for him.

Don't let your feelings for him stop you from going to France in the summer.

 

whats the band called?

 

lmao, you could have at least banged the bassist.

 

*edit*

um ok first of I'm not complaning.. I wasn't fucking my exes because of my choice not theirs.. and it's not like I'm in love with that guy.. and we've talked about it. I told him.. am I just a piece of ass?? And he said no but he's not looking for a serious relationship right now.. because apparently he can't trust anybody. Him being in a band doesn't make a groupie I don't fuck him just because he's the most popular guy in the band.. and I know he had several girlfriends.. like steady girlfriends but they're the ones who let him down not him.. so I think he's not like what you guys think.. maybe he is.. but if he is.. that's okay.. he's not the love of my life or anything..

 

he's 19.. too young. the guitarist tho I would but he's taken. hah. Ty the hottest tho.

 

rofl he has several girlfriends? You're getting pwned so hard, I want to shake this guy's hand for such a triumphant victory.

 

Thats bullshit. If he is willing to shag someone else when your in the same house as him he shouldnt even have the right to a penis!!
Even though your not going out he should have some respect for you and not have done that.

 

You're not fucking him because he happens to be the most popular guy in the band, no. Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight! What a loser. (I think I'll start using this word as much as women use it too. why not?)

 

I meant he had.. sorry.. not right now!! haha..

and fexurbis watch your mouth I'm not willing to take so much disrespect like that.. I'm not fucking him because of that. I just said that cause that's the truth.. it has nothing to do with the fact that I fuck him.

 

anyways this thread has no point anymore because I got all the answers to the questions I was asking myself from him, himself.. which is best, right?