Is It Hard To Be A Man? :(

Went to a swinger party two nights ago for example. Masturbated to lesbian porn in front of this one old friend, sucked his dick. Played witha a girl. Fucked five guys. Got access to the master bed which is by invitation only. No other men allowed on that bed.

Felt powerful and euphoric.

Date paid $40 for the couple. Did all that without spending one red cent.

Meanwhile it was a sausage fest this time. There were about 15 girls. And about 30 guys. Most of the cuter girls just stuck closely to their bfs. WTF? This has never happened!

So the point is, a whole bunch of guys went home without getting any action. I felt sorry for them. They were competing. I wasn't. I never do LOL.

Went on some website where all the guys were saying things like "sex is not an option for me" and "you need to be a rock star to pull it off." One said "I wish I was a girl."

I also think about stuff like how it's taboo to hit women even if they hit you first but what if you're a physicallly weaker man? Then you just have to take Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu or just get your ass kicked I guess lol.

Then you could just fuck whores but there's a stigma against having to pay for pussy.

So is it hard to get laid guys? Or to be a man in general?

 

I don't mind

Neither should they, except no one takes the initiative to learn from experience anymore, which makes me sad. It's pretty stupid. Their loss, though

 

it has its ups and downs. like being a woman, i assume.

 

the fantasy is there for wanting to be a woman but that's just me thinking like a man wanting to think like a girl.
It's not hard being a man now that I'm not a crazy kid wanting to get laid by every woman I see.

I would like to be a woman for a week but not know tell it was over.

 

Where do people like the OP come from? Are they just trolls, or 50 year old men who jerk off to their own fantasy threads?

Anyway, it's not that hard for men to get laid if they lower their standards far enough. There are plenty of nasty, obese women out there who will have sex with just about any guy who crosses their path. But I like women with some class, who take care of their bodies. I would rather jerk off than get laid by some nasty skank who has cheddar cheese dripping from her nether regions which smell like the fisherman's wharf.

 

OMG....LOL ^

my legs are closed.....LOL

 

It depends on the guy tbh.

I know plenty of men who having no problem at all getting women a sleep with them but I also have two friends who have been very open with me lately about how hard it is for them to find women willing to have sex

 

I'm only responding to this garbage to say that im not responding

 

WTF? What did I say that was so bad??

 

WTF? You know what? Fuck it. If you have it rough, I don't give a shit. Girl power!

 

What kind of mentally sound, self-respecting woman fucks five guys in one night, let alone seems proud to admit it?

If I was there I certainly wouldn't want to get near a woman that has just had five loads dumped inside of her. Fucking disgusting! I don't care how hot a woman is, fucking her after she's been with five other men is beyond repulsive. There is nothing remotely "hot" about that. And to be honest, I am willing to bet that the women who engage in this type of activity probably are not the best looking.

Did you ever consider that maybe some of the men who didn't get any "action," didn't see the worth in getting sloppy seconds (or in this case sloppy sixths) and possibly risking the contraction of an STD?

I mean, some of the shit you write sounds so off the wall and downright ludicrous that one can only assume you're trolling, or perhaps you do have some serious mental health issues.

 

Samantha, consider the source. Any guy who uses the picture of a miscreant that killed 20+ children for his avatar isn't worth any attention at all. He's nothing. His opinion is worthless. He's behaving like a troll. Senior member? 28,000 posts? Maybe he's just dunk.

These deeply sexual adventures are not for most people. That's why we are here. Those of us who are sincerely Very Sexual understand others who are also Very Sexual and we don't judge each other. You have demonstrated compassion with your observations and willingness to discuss them. It is difficult to be a man, but it is also difficult to be female. Life isn't easy for anyone. It may look easier, but it's not. Yes, I wish I had a magic wand that would allow me to have sexual experiences with who ever I fancied, in whatever combination of men and women simultaneously, but that's just not reality for me. Reality for me is that I get what I get, when I get it, and from reading about others people's failures, I'm doing OK. I always want more, but life gets in the way. I read about one woman who wanted a MFM threesome, but lives in a small community in the middle of nowhere. Her opportunities are quite limited in that setting...regardless of how attractive she might be. So, I believe that it's all a matter of perspective.

Competition amongst males for the opportunity to have sex with a female is the natural order of the boiological world. Males compete to further their genetic code.

There are men and women who are different from the Hollwood norm foisted upon us by the media elite. They are nice, kind, loving, caring, sensitive, compasionate, sexual people. It's clearly an adolescent view to assail them for their looks.

 

Oh, I get it: so men can fuck as much as they want OR be in a relationship but a woman who does the same thing is crazy and lacks self-respect? Sounds like a sexist double standard to me.

So much for free love.

Yes I'm proud to be different. I'm proud to be deviant. I'm proud to deviate from the norm. I'm an adult, I'm in control, I'm in a free country, and it feels great. GlenGlen is gay and he deviates from the norm. He should know first hand how nasty some gay men can get, fucking around in strangers buttholes. But instead he stands in support of this.

Oh and my lovers have zero complaints about my looks. Big black dicks rule.

And no the men who didn't get any were disappointed. Oh well.

 

Thanks so much VS. That was admirable of you to speak up.

Yes we sexual people are harassed a lot, even here. So we have to stick together.

I was also writing this because I was thinking of if I had a son, what would I tell him. I would wish my close friend's dick on my son lol. He is undoubtedly an alpha male. But it might not work out and they may have to sign up for a relationship, maybe even from some high maintenance demanding girl or a girl who tries to trap him with pregnancy.

 

Many of those who don't personally know highly sexual females like to tell themselves we don't exist. Or, that we all fit perfectly into a very unfavorable stereotype.

That's great, but it's pointless to debate with haters. The positive message never sinks in.

 

Thing is--it's your life. Do what you will with it. Life is too damn short to worry about the prattle of others. Do no harm to others and remember--we're all just passing through anyway. You know how it is---don't expect everyone to accept what you do.


I've found it exceedingly easy to be a man. And I've enjoyed it.

 

What do you tell your son?
I tell other males who ask me,to look for women they find attractive in their everyday lives. Introduce yourself: "Hi, my name is John." Tell that lady that you find her attractive and would like to take her out. Set a goal of doing that 100 times. (You'll never get to 100. You'll find someone long before that.) On the first, or second date, tell this lady of your desire to be sexual with her (not necessarily on that date). Either things will pick up, or they will end. If she's into it, great! If not, Next! I found that many women were horny and welcomed finding a sex partner. They also welcomed finding someone to do things with. This requires you to put yourself out there. It's a risk. It's a gamble. It's a shooting gallery and you are volunteering to be the duck. The disappointment of rejection disappears with that first sexual experience.

 

Haven't you ever heard of a condom? You can buy more than one at a time. Did you know that? Having never been to a swinger party, what would you know of whether the people there are attractive? Having been to swingers venues myself I can tell you that the people look normal. Fit and fat people are there. All kinds of skin tones, different accents, different interests, and ranging from plain looks to extraordinary. Some men and some women just like to watch and stick to their own partners. Some will branch out but only with established friends. Some go wild and will hook up with anyone willing. But I have almost always seen condoms in use. Some will play in public, some watch and then take it private. I have seen all types. How boring the world would be if everyone was as negative about free love as you.

 

Free love my ass. The word love does not even factor into the equation when talking about this kind of shit. The problem with sexual deviants such as some of those who post in these forums is that many of them have never had love in their lives, so to make up for it they go around having sex with anyone and everyone.

Why have so many people in the porn industry committed suicide? Because it's not normal to objectify yourself as a sex object, as many of you do. It's dehumanizing, whether you care to admit it or not.

Please do not use the word love in the context for your grotesque sexual escapades.