Is it cheating?

I would feel lucky to be your sex partner, love you

 

As a few other guys on this forum have experienced, if you can find me, you can. But, I wish to say I don’t like the word casual in my mind also…this thread is about cheating. Is that what you would be doing?

 

But don’t mix Love with this…it is just giving and getting enjoyment from sex.

 

Wow! That was subtle!

 

Yes…90% of the guys ask in private message…but I suppose I’m pretty open about what I do, so it’s fair game!

 

I think a lot of people ask, but actually when it got down to a lot would be hesitant lol

 

Perhaps. However, my beauty, even if you ARE in the top 1% of the bell curve, it's no reason to tolerate men disrespecting you. I know that you and I will never meet face-to-face, but that doesn't prevent me from feeling very protective towards you. Call me old-fashion.

 

All people are crazy about you and look forward to having sex with you

 

An I look forward to those “all people”!

 

I look at it this way. Sex is an activity that feels good. So is drinking a beer with a friend. So if you go out to the bar with said friend, male or female, are you cheating a spouse out of the enjoyment of having that beer? No, because you can come home and enjoy another beer with the spouse. Same with sex. You can also have sex with said spouse after. Another way I look at this cheating thing is the reason why most "cheat". It is because of lack of sex with the spouse. Since spouse won't fulfill your desire for sex isn't that cheating also? Cheating you out of the enjoyment of having sex with them. I call that reverse cheating.

 

So I’m like the keg of beer at the bar ! I have not the first hand knowledge but I do see colleagues and often guys I fuck who express that they used to have a good sex life and that it often changes when they get married or other formal relationship. When I go to big events such as sex clubs, that is often oversexed younger guys looking to show off with a big cock…but during the weekdays, I am often with smaller groups and often they are regular guys (I don’t ask details) and many seem like they are just not getting it at home…so as you say, they need to go have a beer once in a while.

 

Lmao so true

 

It depends on the relationship they have but most 'normal' couples would say yes. For my parents for instance it would likely be immediate divorce. I'd probably put myself in this camp but (thankfully) I'm not married so idk.

That said I've met other people whose partners go on girls/guys holidays and they just get to sleep with whomever then go back to monogamy at home. So I guess I would say if it was a known and agreed thing no but if its behind their back then yes.

 

I'll drink to that! Reminds me of a Jimmy Buffett song titled "Why Don't We Get Drunk".

 

Many women would enjoy living the life you do. Mine wife enjoyed a few adventures at swing clubs, but not quite so daring.