is it best to do oral before you intercourse (for the first time in ur relationship)?

which is the smart/nicest order to do it all in?
i was blowing my exbf a lot cos i wasn't in love so didn't want to intercourse with him. but maybe i shouldn't have been blowing. he got angry and almost forced me to go all the way but i got away cos his brother heard us and opened the door luckily.

 

Listen sweetheart, never do anything you don't want to do or are not comfortable with. Sexual acts should come naturally and willingly, have fun but if you aren't ready for sex, no big deal, you can have tons of fun still doing other things. But for your question generally yeah oral before sex.

 

thats ok its fun as long as they don't force me all the way unless i'm in love/willingly. oral is really interesting and a nice prize without going all the way. vgood that its 1st!

 

his wife died so he doesn't rush things and he actually quit dating! he definitely has not done it with me. real first time.

 

It really sounds like you are fully ready to commit to being this guys wife when you are asking questions like this!

 

thanks! i do think about him always and the things we could end up doing :love: even if its weeks away. its fun to think of :love:

 

not sure, i mean my exbf 'fingered' me a lot. not sure if that counts as a first time.

 

OP- (not that I expect you to answer honestly), but... are you are real? You're either a funny troll or a really immature 18 year old. Both seem possible.

 

Doesn't make any difference if it before or after

 

i'm more mature than every other 18 year old that i've met. that's why my bfs are older.