OMG i have to say something. Yeah. ok so you have kids and home and a life. Your spouse doesnt want to have sex. You go somewhere else.. Should you break up your family life for that. Everyone says "get divorced" Ummm no. Your kids mean more than your happiness to me they do atleast. Im not taking a happy home away from my kids cus my husband wont sleep with me and when he does it lasts 2 min. Im a VERY communicative person and ive tried for years to discuss this openly to no avail. If you will never leave because you want your kids to grow up in a secure loving family with BOTH parents. I say find someone safe to have a relationship with. unless you really do enjoy sex with your wife spouse and are happy. then work it out. bring new life into your relationship. But yeah seriously life isn't black and white as most people who arent in the situation like to believe. But it would be nice if it were that way and everyone had the perfect situation.
If your penis is more important than your marriage,You shouldn't be married. Leave so you can do what you want: Harm and guilt free. It's pretty damn selfish to stay in a relationship for your own ego's security and then seek sexual gratification elsewhere because getting off is the be all and end all of your existence.
It can work - it did (does) for me, but your hubby has to be not only totally okay with it but actually want it for you.
I'm married and i would not mind fucking other guys just because my sex life is pretty boring. But i would never cheat on my husband. If something like that were to happen it would have to be something we both agree on. I would also have to be open to the idea of him having sex with other woman. I believe you can try to separate sex and love. I love my husband and having sex with other guys would just be that, sex. I have entertained the idea of swinging later on in life and have told my husband this. He is also thinking about it so it may be something that we may be able to look into when the kids are grown. But like it said, we both have to agree on it and be open about it. I don't like secrets and cheating. We have to learn to accept each other sleeping with others or something like this would not work. Our marriage is more important then sex even if i am bored.
