I have been with my bf for 10 months now, and i have noticed that when i have my clothes on, he always likes to touch my breast's , try's to tease me, looks at them etc....But when i am naked he doesn't really bother with them...like most of the time, nothing at all. So the other day i explained to him that i noticed that when i have my clothes off, he doesn't touch them or anything....and his reason was: i am not a boob guy when having sex...it does nothing for me i only do it cause i know girls like that. So is this really an excuse? Or he doesn't like what he sees? Why wouldn't he say something from the beginning of our relationship (we have talked about sex many times and for hours and what we like and dislike etc.)...Like why say it now after i complained?
Believe it or not some guys, probably a very few, just see them as lumps. It's not a big deal if you don't see it as a problem, if you do then you need to tell him so. Does he please you in other ways? Funny he would play with them when clothed but not when they are naked. But then again when he is teasing he is teasing, when he is serious with you he is probably going after what really excites him and maybe they just don't as much as other stuff. If it really bothers you then ask him straight out.
He probably is,,, just kidding. I have heard some guys don't care about breasts as much as other things women have.
I'm that's a possibility. Most been I've encountered have been ass worshippers, but they've all all loved boobs.
As a guy, I don't even know what to say about this. I love every single inch of my wifes body and I like to play with all of it...clothes on and especially with clothes off. As long as she's cool with it...I'll do almost anything she wants.
I have been with mostly ass men too, most loved my breasts but one did not seem to see them as nearly as much fun as my ass and puss. Didn't matter to me at all. As long as he saw me as fun to be with and he wanted to do me anyway.
Its funny cause the same night i wanted to ask him to "play" more with them, and then he says that...he does please me i have no complaints but it's just plain weird that he does not really bother when i have no clothes on. Which that makes me think that he does not like what he sees. Cause if that was true, he would not bother at all. (i would imagine).
Im never actually the one that says that. I know the boyfriends not gay, this is enough of a clue: When they are in their birthday suits, he's ignoring the boobs, so unless they are naked and just communicating effectively, then all the attention is getting payed to a town a little south of boobville. i.e giving CPR to a wet cat You probably dont really pay much attention to how often women look at each others chest. Women look at each others boobs more than guys do, what MAMMA said about most of them being assmen, kind of the whole point of bras, squish the ladies together so it reminds him of your butt. Guys look at womens backsides more
