My wife once told me that I could be with a man because she knows that it would be to get his cock( she knows I'm a total catcher) from time to time. However I posted a personal ad to try to find a regular thing and it was a problem for her. Is it selfish of me to want a guy friend that I screw around with when I get horny for dick?
Many people have no problems showing great degrees of generosity in every sense when the matter at hand involves TALK ONLY. You know, something that we call 'nice thoughts'... Now, when the matter at hand leaves the world of the 'nice thoughts' and very empty talks, everything changes totally. Suddenly, the generosity, open-mindedness, clear promises, etc., are all out of the window... KD
Because the way to show love is to enslave the ones we love... It's a strange sick world where nature and love are both twisted.
I want to bring up the subject again but at the same time I don't want her to feel like I'm not into her. Cause I am I just want to have a real dick also.
Well, then your best bet is to find a no-strings-attached sex partner and the simplest way to do that is to try to conceal it in "business travels" that actually are. One the one hand, your wife claims to support you, but her actions show that she does not. You KNOW what the outcome will be for a steady side guy. I'm sorry about your situation, but it makes me glad that I saw the truth about marriage before deciding to try going down that road. ESPECIALLY, since I am strongly bisexual, having straight extremes as well as gay extremes. ONE PARTNER could never satisfy all of them. I wish you the best of luck in your quest. And, after all, it makes more sense for a bi guy to marry a woman than a man because no-strings-attached m2m partners are a lot easier to acquire than no-strings-attached m2f partners are to acquire. That's just something important to keep in mind. And...if you are really worried about STDs then simply stick to fucking other married guys. You'll be JUST FINE.
I have had a regular for years, it's the only way to go. I know what he likes and he knows what I like. Since he often participates in my wife and I sexual endeavors, My wife approves of my choice of friend and knows that when I'm sucking or he fucking me is clean and bug free. He knows that I will always be available to suck his nice cock and knows that if the wife walks in she joins in.