this is for my friend. she has really low self esteem and think no guys like her because she has a little bit of love handle type things. I keep trying to convince her that that does not always matter to guys but she wont believe me and has led me to believe that it is a great turn off. guys, is it bad to have a little excess fat on your body. love handles, not flat stomach but almost there, big thighs etc? i really want to prove this to her.