Is intercourse much different without a condom?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Bree_olson_lover, Jun 4, 2019.

  1. Bree_olson_lover

    Bree_olson_lover Guest

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    I've never had unprotected vaginal sex I've only had sex with escorts (except once) as I've never had a relationship with a female before due to mental health issues. The other day I saw an escort she gave me a bareback blowjob while it was better without I can't say it was a huge difference, so for those of you who have had it without do you notice much difference?

    I'd be surprised if there isn't quite a difference as when I've felt a women's pussy it feels so wonderful, so wet and soft and inviting. I find it hard to come with a condom on it tends to take away a lot of the feeling I think it's due to me being conditioned to getting off with my hand which is tight compared to a pussy which is looser and so add to that a condom as well and it doesn't seem to be as enjoyable as it should be.

    I seem to enjoy sex more with the smaller asian girls as they are tighter so it's more stimulating.
     
  2. YouCanTrustMe

    YouCanTrustMe Average Size Member

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    With or without should feel nearly identical. If it doesn’t, you’re not using the right condom.

    99% of the difference is mental.

    The remaining 1% is usually exaggerated.
     
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    You can't feel much different physically. The feeling is entirely mental.
     
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  4. Bree_olson_lover

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    Just bumping up this old thread, any input much appreciated. Like I said blowjobs aren't that much better without a condom the feeling is only a tiny bit better, but how do you guys or girls that have had it find intercourse without a rubber? Women's pussy's feel so lovely when I feel with my finger when they're wet, seems hard to believe the difference wouldn't be quite striking.
     
  5. Andy Schumer

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    In my case it allows me to last longer, strangely, but the orgasms are more intense with the direct friction. That’s for penetration
    As for oral I prefer finishing with a condom on, otherwise I get too sensitive and can’t take the stimulations
     
  6. Andy Schumer

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    Titfuck, bare anytime, condoms are fine too
     
  7. Joboo6

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    I have to disagree with many of you but I was using condoms back in the seventies. The feeling of a wet pussy is lost with a condom. I would think there is little difference for the woman except for feeling the cum.
     
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  8. Bree_olson_lover

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    That's what I can't help wondering.
     
  9. olderndirt

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    My wife gets very wet, and I missed that with a condom. She couldn't explain why, but she likes sex much better without a condom. She admits it might be more mental than a physical feeling. It didn't matter, because all of her sex with others has required a condom.
     
  10. Barry Mandelay

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    Forget the seventies and condom styles back then. One thing the AIDs epidemic did was to make major improvements in condom technology. There are more sizes and materials to choose from, instructions on how to get the correct fit, tips for ways to wear them, and using a correctly fitted and lubricated cover makes no difference in how it feels inside a pussy. From that point on it's all mental. Mental from the aspect of knowing your fucking her pussy with your bare cock and leaving your semen inside after you have cum. If you do your research and get the correct size and material, lubricate not only the pussy but the cock before putting the condom on, wearing a condom while fucking feels just as great as not wearing one.

    Here's a link with excellent information about condom size and fit.
    Here's How Pick Your Perfect Condom Size With This Handy Chart
     
  11. Lelyal

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    It feels good enough to allow me to cum. It might feel a little different at first, but that disappears fast. Certainly not enough difference to risk catching a disease
     
  12. Bree_olson_lover

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    I've tried lots of the so called 'natural' thin ones and it's all BS marketing, there's literally no difference in sensation compared to regular ones. I also really hate the industrial smell of the rubber it's a real turn off, I know condoms serve a purpose but to me they are just a necessary evil, emphasise the word 'evil'.

    Although maybe I could try an extra large one to compare it to a standard one, I have used one once before quite a while ago but I can't remember if it was much different. Who know maybe a looser fitting condom could help, I have a 6.5" member and I find the standard condoms are very tight but aren't they supposed to be? But not uncomfortable.

    I just find I get a lot of sensation from masturbating with lube compared to the dull sensation I get with a condom.
     
  13. Barry Mandelay

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    Condoms aren't supposed to be very tight. A looser fit is best and it isn't going to come off from fucking. Length isn't as important as girth when fitting a condom on your cock. Most condoms are 7.5" to nearly 8" in length but the width is what you look for. You might go ahead and try the large condoms where the width is over 2" instead of the standard size you have been using which is usually 1.75" wide. Go to that website I linked above and find several condoms based on your measurements. Get them, add lube inside before putting one on, fuck a pussy or a toy, and see which one works best for you.
     
  14. Drakeriper

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    I am 47 now and have been in several long term relationships so it has been a long time since i used a condom (25years). For me sex without a condom is much better than with. You feel the wetness, every little groove of the vaginal walls, with a condom it took me much longer to cum. With all of my girlfriends once we got more serious and made the switch to no condom they all much preferred it. I remember one woman, she was 20, and I was her second partner and we were having sex with a condom when I felt it tear inside her and there was a huge increase in pleasure for both of us. I told her it broke, but she begged me not to stop and she came very quickly. From then on she was always asking me to fuck her without one and then finish with.
    Reading comments above, I now know that due to me being a bit on the longer and thicker side I should have been using bigger condoms. It was sometimes a real struggle to get it on and several bursts happened. Just for fun I should try a big one with my wife to see how it feels.
     
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    Try out the Magnum Ecstasy - larger, still good grip at the base, but the head end is made bigger so you can move around inside of it, too, instead of being strangled. They're still thick and sensation deadening but at least they fit. They have lots of silicone lube, too, which helps inside.
     
  16. Andy Schumer

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    There are differences for me.
    I feel what a woman is like better, inside her vagina.
    Oddly enough I tend to last longer without, I believe the snugness of certain condoms increased the stimulations.
    The other difference is that I can go longer after. I once continued with my ex and it didn’t take long for the condom to break. I was not going hard btw.
     
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    I definitely think it’s better without.

    After our child was born I had to go back to using a condom again. Decided to get the snip in the end so it was no longer necessary.
     
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    It’s better than no sex…but the feeling of slipping into liquid velvet is sublime.
     
  19. Bocci

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    Seriously? It is entirely different. We haven’t used them in over 30 years and would never go back to using them. It is a different physical, mental, and sometimes spiritual experience.

    we are very choosy about the couples we swing with, and we do it much less frequently now due to work and family schedules, but we always do it bare and would never consider anyone who wanted it otherwise. They’re just after a much different experience than we are. There are more than enough sane couples out there that have the same feeling that we do.
     
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