If you think that there's nothing about that experience that would a man unfaithful, lemme talk to you because there sure as hell is. At the end of any day, you gotta tell yourself whatever working but if you're in a relationship and you don't have your partner's permission to engage in sex with other people, well, there's obviously something about those experiences that, in fact, have made you unfaithful to them and, honestly, I really hate to be the one to tell you this but there is plenty of historical fact to support this. Now, depending on who you're talking to, the moment you even think about having sex with someone who isn't your partner, you're guilty of emotional infidelity. If you tell yourself the truth in that you cannot control a compulsion that's not all that easy to control and you're out there doing your thing, it's still infidelity and more so when, that compulsion notwithstanding, you make a conscious decision to dive on in there because, um, duh, you could have said no and stuck with it. "I can't control myself!" isn't a valid excuse or reason for cheating on your partner. No matter what you tell yourself to sleep at night, cheating is cheating unless - and as we've come to realize - it's not cheating if you have permission. If you cannot control the compulsion, society will charge and hold you guilty of the "crime" of giving into temptation and, yup, disobeying the Word of God and as it's laid out in the Old Testament, all that stuff. Finally, if you think that there's nothing special about throwing out the taboo and enjoying sex with a man, well, I don't really know what to tell you other than, yeah, some guys think that it's no big deal and it's just sex but for others? It doesn't get that much more special than that.