I tend to blame the '60s and '70s generation for the laxed moral codes of the younger generations. It's not to say that exploring ones sexuality is wrong, it's just flaunted waayyyy too much nowadays. There is something called dignity. I never throw around the nasty thoughts I have and tell everyone under the sun about any exploits. I keep that between me and the one person I trust most...my best friend. There is a time and place for everything.
I think that sex is just not the taboo it once was and that women are so much more empowered than they used to be. So what you may deem as sluttiness is just women speaking their mind and being open about their desires. When I was in school, some 15 years ago, sexual promiscuity was quite often worn as a badge of honour by some of the more popular girls. And they openly seemed to compete with each other for who could go the furthest. But at the end of the day guys have been doing that for years anyway, so what's new.
all down to what you want in life peace is in the mind ,its how i live , if i fuck up today ,it will kick my ass tomro , peace all the way,
Fulfilling your sexual desires does not make you a whore, or slutty. It's human nature. Men have been doing it for centuries without being slandered.
Social forces are at work here guys... reality of the situation is that society has made it impossible for sexual girls to not be seen as sluts or whores. Its not anyones fault, but collectively speaking, it is impossible to have different societies around the world who hold traditional beliefs about the genders expand their ideology to see sexuality as a part of life for both of the sexes.
Interresting topic started by a poser. But when others continue it in freewill, fine. Morals are morals. When one is doing something, it is clear that if it is right, the person feels right. If not, deep down one knows it isn't. Hence all the explaining and saying "I don't care what others thing, but here I am defending myself blah blah blah." If one doesn't care, then one doesn't care.
I guess I fit into this age group. Funny enough, not everyone around my age is 'slutty' I've never had sex, I've done plenty of making out, touching etc but never the full way with any chick I've hooked up with yet.
I don't know if this has been posted before, but my grandma is a total slut. like big time. Huuuuge whore (she'll do anyone for some hard candy).
It is just more accessable, and people are more open to sex these days. It's like in the older days when people were afraid to speak of being gay.
I have been with my girlfriend since she was 14, so that makes 6 years. We have tried just about all sexual positions invented by 18 but certainly she isn't a slut. I am the only guy she has been with. She has been with two other woman, but both times I have been there.
yeah but that's just common sense... if two people fuck and make three kids, there will be more. People are also stupid about birth control. I don't think people are much more slutty than "before" I mean... I've been trying to get laid and some girls I'm around are pretty fuckin' conservative or committed to someone else.