Is being nice to everyone a bad thing? when it comes to the opposite sex?

That's never a bad plan! :cheers2:

 

Lol, I was including it all. To me prostitution is prostitution. Doesn't matter who's doing it

But I should mention the American stripper model. What crap! I feel sorry for the guys that go to American strip bars and throw their money away to watch a girl undress in front of them or grind away on their lap. I'd honestly rather flush my money down the toilet and watch it swirl around for a few seconds than to engage in that pitiful stripper exchange.

Lol, I guess you better tell your best friend to get ready

 

Yeah, but that group often gets overlooked.

In some states, they can't even legally give a quality lap dance!

The rules vary from state to state, but some cities also have official rules and unofficial rules, depending on how much bribe money the club pays to the local police. Some places, you can get pretty much whatever you want to pay for.

Almost every time I go with my hubby to a strip club out of town, some girl approaches us about doing more with us, in our room, after she finds out that we're staying at a major hotel where she knows some of the security people.

We've even stayed at hotels where the staff offered to make sexual arrangements for us, after they met us in person and became 100% sure we weren't undercover law enforcement officers. We always make our own deals, after we've seen the girls and talked to them.

A girl who has learned how to think like a prostitute is even better, if you can find one. Maybe one who has retired from the profession...

 

I do find that surprising. Perhaps it’s because you’re there with him, and they just find you so damn irresistible

That happens to me all the time, depending on the country I’m in. The hotel doormen are often like drug pushers when it comes to sex. Taxi drivers are even worse! Some hotels the girls will even hang out in the lobby or by the bar hoping to pickup a guest for the night.

 

Cool, man. Seems like we have a lot in common and your post is right on. I gotta say, I do love experienced whores, though. As long as they don't lose their taste for filth.

 

I'd like to believe that, but I know it's mostly about the way I play their game, and a few other factors. Being female, being in a couple, and being over 30 makes me seem very nonthreatening to them, so I get better treatment and better information. After we pay them for something, including a generous tip, and they become even more comfortable with us, I get more inside info and more contact information for various underground sexual activities around town. I always find all that interesting, even though I don't use much of it anymore.

All these people are very good at sizing people up, and they try hard to keep potential troublemakers from finding out too much. For the record, there is officially nothing available beyond a limited lap dance. And they will never say otherwise in a voicemail, e-mail, or text message. There is no electronic trail to follow, same as back in the '80's.