Funny line I read years ago in an advice book by an academic Sexologist: "Use enough lube. Everywhere. Even the cat."
Yup bro quite agree with wat u said above...most wives or ladies n even quite a no. of men do not like anal sex cos of the pain caused at the ladies' anus n hygiene consideration for both partners...but a lot of lady members in here seems to quite enjoy anal sex...well i suppose, to each his/her own...shd be done consensually though
Is any kind of sex a good idea? Depends on what one thinks of as good. Some feel that anything that "feels good" is good.
My half sister started having anal sex in her teens to avoid pregnancy, and as long as the guy's dick wasn't too huge, (some were) she really got into it. It became a big part of her ongoing sex life, at least at the time when she and I were talking about such things.