Is anal sex a good idea?

Anal is very bad

 

Why is it bad?

 

Going from anal to vaginal isn't a good idea. Refer to common sense in the above thread. But, of 100s of times having unprotected anal sex with my wife, I have not once had a problem. Doesn't mean it can't happen. Just saying it is not likely when both partners are healthy.

 

I agree. Never went from ass to vagina. Always end with anal or at the most pulling out and cumming usually on her lower back. There has been a few times she wanted a facial but not often. But as long as you have it in her ass you might as well bust it in there too

 

Cos its dangerous

 

It's a great idea. In practice? Not so much,

 

Yes, it's a great idea. If, and only if, the woman wants to try it though. Dangerous? Pfft! It is probably more so walking down the sidewalk, unless one is being pretty damned dumb.

Be smart, use some common sense, and good lube. Otherwise, no. It's not such a good idea.

 

I agree. My wife and I have been doing it for several years. It does take the right mood for her to want it but when she does, I'm all for it.

 

As a guy I have been anal all my life. I've been pegged, screwed by men and use plugs and dildos almost daily. It started when I was maybe 9 years old and still going at -58 years old. Just learn how to clean yourself out and don't go in dry.

 

That seems very unhygenic

 

The pathogenic bacteria in her rectum should be fairly harmless to HER. It is a different story, if a guy transferrers it to another woman.
Guys wounded in the trenches during WW1, were told to clean the wound using their urine, which is full of THEIR antibodies. More than one soldier died from the infection after another guy used his urine.

 

Urine from any of us, IF there is no infection present, is sterile. Yep, sterile. Now a UTI or bladder problem cancels that fact.

As to that last sentence. Given the horrid living conditions they were enduring, it's quite probable that many of them had UTI's which would have been the source of an infection, not the urine itself.

 

That is true, any body fluids can transfer infection. Both bacteria and viruses can also become airborne from coughing and sneezing, but viruses cannot mutate this way.
Unfortunately, here in the UK, less than one in a thousand doctors study virology as a second discipline. This resulted in so much confusion and misunderstanding during covid.
Screening this advert on public UK television always amused me, since antibiotics are prescription only. The problem was, that since the dangers of a virus are at the following bacterial stage, many doctors and particularly dentists were prescribing them as what they thought was a safeguard.
Unfortunately, when the bacterial stage of covid was causing pneumonia to advance to septicaemia in around one in a thousand cases, the antibiotics used in ICU were then made ineffective
Covid must nave been the biggest shambles in medical history.
Now the World Health Authority figures show that 2020 mortality was only up 1.7% on 2019 and lower than 2017, the government have gone very sheepish.

 

I'll bet a lot of our US docs would like to see that run on US television.

It's difficult explaining to people that a virus is not alive, not a living thing, just a spring-loaded package of DNA. That flies right over their head. And they've been conditioned by television ads that without a prescription written, the doc is just blowing them off. (I picked up Hep C from a patient and had it for 18 yrs, so I'm familiar with viruses.)

Now if there's an opportunistic bacterial infection going on that's a different story. But that's best done by culturing an actual specimen from the patient to determine the best antibiotic for use then.

Ok, the nurse is now on break.

 

Is anal sex a good idea? Yes? No? Maybe? What's good for one person maybe not for another. It just takes a bit of common sense to figure out if it's good for you or your partner.

There's been some really good advice in the comments already so I'll just go over, what I think is, the most important pointers.

DO make sure both (or all!) parties involved are consenting and 'up for it'. Any form of sex is stimulation of the mind as much as it is stimulation of the body. If either one of you does not want to do it, neither of you would have an enjoyable experience.

DO be 'anally' clean (pardon the pun!) and do consider using enemas and condoms.

DO be well prepared and make sure you have plenty of lube and tissues at hand.

DON'T try and old 'oops, I've slipped in the wrong hole' technique. It's not like in a porn movie where the girl would tell you to just keep going, 99 times out of a 100, it would put a stop to any sexual activity that night! So make sure you partner knows what's going on before trying anything new.

DO go nice and slow initially and consider using smaller toys or fingers before you start shoving your hotdog in the bun! Don't be afraid to stop if it's not working. You can always try again next time. If you give you partner a painful (or bad) experience, there will be a much slimmer chance of a next time.

DON'T treat it like a pornstar experience, pounding her like a steam train, swapping holes and expecting ATM. Not only is this unrealistic but it is also the quickest way to get STDs and infections, which ain't fun for anyone involved.

Finally, make sure you're both relaxed about it and enjoy the experience but also be mature enough to admit it is either of you didn't enjoy it.

Good luck!

 

I'm a man and I enjoy having another man enter me. I love it! Really gets me hot!

 

I do something like kagel exercises so a man has a good experience when I hug his manhood inside of my lunchbox (so to speak)

 

I love it.

 

I agree with you very much so! I love a good dick but I want a man to be nice about it so that we can both enjoy it. Plus, I like to please a man. As a man myself, I try to make my sex partners understand how to be responsive to me.

 

I love your way with words!