irritable in life

Topics that are plagued by holiers that go off topic purely because they see my name is irritating, but I don't react. My emotion of disdain and impatience is held in check and instead I confront it logically. No one has answered the question. Like you ManHec....what is your style when you are irritated in real life?

 

Perhaps no one here identifies themselves as a 'holier'

 

:sultan:

 

Same as online. I'm a confrontational jerk in real life too.

Honestly, I seldom read your threads because I don't care for the topics but the Bitches of Hipwick and the Hollier threads just juxtaposed themselves on my 'new posts' screen nicely enough to intrigue me. So you might want to check your paranoia.

 

Why must I have to tell you all over and over that is exactly how you sound.

 

never !

 

It often makes sense to at least think about what a majority tries to tell you. Even if they are not always right it most likely holds some truth. Now you seem to be simply dismissing the point some are trying to make because it does not suit you.

 

Hm, paranoia. exasperated is more like it

 

Ahem. Post and associated quote from post Nr. 48 really hit home. Most postees on this site tend to be "holier". In a Free Speech environment , what really is the need for any moderation what-so-ever? Cal has legitimate feelings and opines and posts accordingly. You don't like her or her posts? Who cares?

 

Well, you don't. You are the one that thinks you have to. Sorry for having a moral opinion that coincides with the majority

 

Well that's the thing about free speech, right. We get to speak too.

 

Absolutely I will dismiss conclusions in which many have no clue. They do not know me. I present a scenario....and might get back things about my character. Why would I listen to 5-10 people on a forum that use that tactic? Come on! Especially that you all have to rely on each other to feel right about it.

Think of this....how many PMs do you think I get? That say the OPPOSITE. I'm not necessarily validated by the reinforcement, but it is an interesting accumulation of data.

 

It's not a matter of power, it's a matter of perception. If a large amount of people thought I was an immature attention seeker, I'd probably reevaluate the way I present myself to people.

 

To each his own. You go do a group hug.

 

I think you are doing here the exact same of which you accuse people: drawing conclusions out of what someone says and project it onto them. Perhaps you are thinking of MAMA but since you quoted me I have to say this is how people misinterpretate and make wrong assumptions of eachother. You seem to do it at least as much in this thread.

I'm not sure what to think of that. After all I am not the all knowing, super objective, holy person you like to make of me :daisy:

 

Well I know I'm not one, so no evaluating necessary.

There are the unsaid things about you though you might need to look at seriously but why bother, it's only the internet. You need to check "large amount"..... you've got maybe a few backing you up.....oh wait we're talking perception.

 

No thanks, not because you project some clique-ish behaviour on me :sunny:

 

How do you know her inbox isn't as full as yours with support?

 

It goes without saying because I know already how you feel. And yes comparing us is ludicrous. Please.