Hi guys, New to the forum and just wanted some thoughts on introducing butt plugs into our relationship. My girl friend and I have spoken about it but only in a jovial sort of way. I've always loved the idea I playing with her and a toy in that way. I'm thinking about surprising her with one and going from there. What do you all think?...
Butt plugs are EXCELLENT tools for dilating and relaxing the anus for penetration before full on anal sex. I'd suggest you go with your tongue before the plug.
Start with a small one for your girl, and generally move up in size once she is trained more and liking it.
Would make an excellent birthday or anniversary present. You give her the box and say something like "if I got you something special would you wear it for me?" Don't forget to lube up!
Master trained me with His cock, and brought in the butt plugs just for fun later. It's often my only "underwear" when we go out.
I think it depends on a person, but in my experience they are great both for relaxation and just for play. If she is open, try presenting one to her and see the reaction. But she has to want to try it out. If she will not be relaxed, or in good state of mind, it won't be fun.
ive used 1 and what fun it was, but your right you have to get her relaxed and wanting to try it, dont rush her
how wide at the neck do you find comfortable for a couple hours wear but leaving you ready for your boy?
i like a 1 to 1.5-inch diameter. I've seen where some speak of using a plug the exact girth (or even bigger) of their husband/boyfriend, but that's not the right idea for me: i want to be able to handle Him in my rear, but i still want it to be a challenge! i want Him to take my virginity back there over and over again… and He does
Depending on whether she is clothed when she is surprised, it sounds like either a good or a very bad idea.
She loves my tongue and finger for now. Her first orgasm while having my finger inserted blew her away...
