A question was brought to my attention yesterday by a new female friend. That I had never heard of before, took me off guard. She not a nudist, so her concern after we had been talking about me being one. Her question was me being so comfortable showing my nude body, how would that effect me being intimate. And how would I know the difference from just being nude with another female to something more intimate in nature. She was concerned that 2 people being nude together should be a more intimate and passionate experience. I was at a loss for words, but only could say that I was sure that I would able to differentiate the two. But she was not that sure. Can anyone shade more light on this subject? I was trying to convince her about the nudist life style.
I'm not sure it's that much different to non nudists. When a couple want to become intimate, it's pretty obvious from their body language, regardless of whether they are wearing clothes or not.
My wife and I are nudist and our relationship is super strong. That said, we both would be lying if we said physical attraction didn’t exist when looking at others. Intimacy and passion are self driven by the individual.
It's all in the body language. I've interacted with many nudist women over the years; and it was mostly non-sexual. I say "mostly" because one interaction was different. It was at a non-landed club; and one woman there's behavior was "different." She was flirtatious; and she kind of "zeroed in" on me and my wife. It didn't take long for me to realize, based on how close she was standing/sitting and brushing up against me; that she was interested in being a little more than just friendly. When it came time for us to leave, she seemed disappointed and asked both of us for a hug; and proceeded to give us both a lingering bear hug. I was a bit surprised by the "intimacy" of her pressing her boobs against my chest; and then pressing them again against my wife's; but we were more "amused" than offended. We actually joked about it on the way home. I don't know how my wife knew; but she told me the woman was clearly aroused. So yes: it's not that hard to tell from the body language.
Me and my partner are both nudists and spend most of our time nude together indoors and enjoy outdoor nudity as much as possible too. We socialise with other nudists too and enjoy nude walks and sunbathing at nudist beaches. None of that affects our intimacy and passion together, if anything it makes it stronger. We both enjoy a degree of exhibitionism together, attracting attention, she enjoys showing me off erect for others to see, and we both enjoy looking at other couples and singles too. That only adds to our levels of passion which we can often get carried away with in public.
Our family (my wife, three daughters and me) often went to naturist resorts during the summer which we all loved. If anything, being nude along with all the others made our intimate time even better. We both enjoy seeing other naked bodies. Our first visit triggered some interesting conversations about men's cocks and women's breasts and pubic area. We'd share our observations which would get us turned on. No matter how many times we were naked like that, I still enjoyed look at and was turned on by my wife's body. When I'd look at her I'd think of the wonderful sex we'd shared and wanted more.