internet love

Hello folks, i just wanted to share a story.
Me and a girl have starting talking since 2 weeks, we had fun instantly talking and at first we both started to say internet loves was shity. Yeah, then we started saying to each others * I LOVE YOU*. First it was nothing, but this growed up to alot of love, then it was i want to have sex with you, then it was getting more and more deep it was oh you want to want to make me love sex, so that growed up and now its kinda strong.

Can you tell me why 2 person who doesnt give a shit about internet loves act like that? That's the main reason of this post i mean what the fuck are we doing? Are we just giving each others attention for fun or are getting involed into love well i just dont know cause to me love is build in real life. Ok, you gonna tell me to met her, ya i will do this, but it might take a while people arent so confident about meeting people especialy at my ages, (im 20) so in a good plan with met and we kinda start having TRUE love, that would be so fucking sick. But in the worse plan, we dont met and do that stuff for nothing damn that would be kinda bullshit. So what should i do, try out? and yeah i def love her from what i know of her online, and i kinda hope to met her but i just dont want to be dumb who care about those kind of story mehhh i know i got nothing to lose but i dunno i dliked to have an opinion and share that!
PEACE

 

How Far Do You Live Apart, Is There Any Chance

Of Meeting Face To Face....??



Cheers Glen.

 

in many cases where 2 people fall in love on the internet, it all falls apart after you meet each other, that is a well documented fact, so rather than me suggest that it should be ok, i just offer you the truth about how itt could end up.

if it doesnt go good, you will no longer continue the relationship online either, so you lose out twice and end up with nothing.

me thinks you should just leave it as it is, and enjoy each other for a bit longer before meeting up.

cheers

 

im 21 and over past years i have had many internet loves which u described above with different girls but almost all of them didnt come to anything as the girls seemed to disapear, the senario u described is like all of my internet loves so it can be real when it happens but then sometimes reality sets in for one of the people and they seem to distance themselves, but on the other side i met my current gf online and we are now living together and engaged so it is not all bad but from my experience with online love u have to be very wary and dont give ur heart to someone if they dont feel the same and always remind yourself that u have never met, hope this helps or if i have jut been talking rubbish haha

 

4 hours or something like that

 

ya def thanks for that i should take my time

 

anything is possible, if the distance is only 4 hours it may be worth a shot. the relationship is still very very very new though. you only know how good a bond is after you've been through a few rocky patches. like a sailing ship, the older the better because you know it has stood the test of time and seas.

 

People irl are so much better, but good luck!

 

I'll admit it, I found my love on the internet. I've known her half of my life now and we also connected pretty instantly when we first started talking. She was from WA and I was from NSW, that is completely across country in Australia. We chatted for 4-6 years without knowing what each other looked like. We formed a mental bond and a strong relationship this way. She is my soul mate and I am hers I believe. We were so strongly connected that by the time it came to show ourselves the looks didn't matter we were attracted to each other instantly but it was based solely on personality to begin with.
When we met I knew I needed to be with her. We met at a neutral place, a Motorsport even in Bathurst NSW. I'm a Motorsport enthusiast and of coarse she knew I'd come to her. On the second day I told her she needed to move across country to be with me. Surprisingly she did it. We've been together now for 9 years since and I recently asked her to marry me.

Internet love can work out. We have a great and genuine story to share. I find it foolish to live with the attitude that your true love must be in the same city as you, or the same country yet alone the same school and class room you attend.
There's nothing to lose and everything to gain from online love.

 

this thread makes me smile.

 

thanks chrissy

 

It can be that she has changed her opinion on "internet love" after talking to you. So don't be pessimistic!

 

That's fantastic to hear. I'm actually up in QLD, and have met the most wonderful girl online who lives a good 14 hour drive north of me. We do know what each other looks like, and we're meeting in early April... I really hope all goes well, but I can't see why it wouldn't. I'm 27, and I've never been with anyone before - I was just getting comfortable with being by myself in life when she showed up out of the blue and basically chased me down haha. We've talked a lot, and we're polar opposites in many ways, but she's crazy about me and I am about her so... fingers crossed! I have to believe it can work, otherwise what's the point in even trying

 

I love me some good mating stories, whether it's over the Internet or in person. It's no different to me.

As for you, I guess it might be different for you because you have some negative assumptions of online mating. For example, a common one is that only a ugly person with a horrible personality, if not mental illness, online mates. So, what does that say about you? Or her?

 

My wife and I met online and lived 3 hours apart. After nearly two years of fighting the distance and missing each other and talking on the phone every day we decided to make it permanent and live together and couldn't be happier.

 

So happy for you both!!;-)

 

My baby love and I met on the Internet. At the time we were 2-4 hours apart because I was back and forth between my Dad and my aunt. Met in person about 3 months later (after I moved a little south for a change of scenery and better work) and we've been together for 13 years now.

When love comes around, ANYTHING is possible.

 

YES!!

 

I thought I found a 'once-in-a-lifetime' match. Turned out she is a creature from another planet. She cancelled our first meeting 35 minutes AFTER we had agreed to meet, then messaged me 10 days later to 're-schedule'. By that time, I had forgotten her name.

 

I gave up on that.................i did try



Not saying it is bad, i know enough succes story s..........just not for me, i like looking people in the eye, feel a connection in rl.

And be carefull(interwebz)

Mzzls