internet love

Discussion in 'True Love' started by la Principessa, Aug 15, 2009.

  1. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    It only works if both people want to meet eventually. If you're in a cyber relationship and you want to meet, but the other doesn't, eventually you'll come to resent them and think they don't love you as much as you love them. Being in love means being a real part of each other's lives, not just the segment that is their online personality.
     
  2. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    I met my girlfriend in a chatroom, she's an amazing person.

    6 years ago I met my bestfriend on a website. We hang out all the time. He is like my brother till this day.

    Anything is possible.
     
  3. nannerpuss345

    nannerpuss345 Guest

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    if someone is to far away how would you ever meet him/her?
     
  4. _Bob_

    _Bob_ Una Tana Bibi

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    Get on an airplane and fly there-that's what my wife did :)
     
  5. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    Do what you can. My girl lives in Mass, and I live in NY . I take the greyhound bus, or she will drive a 3 hour ride.
     
  6. brack1936

    brack1936 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    The internet is my only hope. I love her sometimes several times a day and I call her Sarah.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i like the internet, but i don't like like it.
     
  8. AerialReaver

    AerialReaver Member

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    I met my gf online, plenty of fish, she messaged me and we started texting, and at first I was skeptical of online dating, country boys like me usually find more old fashioned means of dating, but I gotta tell ya we've been together now for 6 months now and I couldn't be happier. I'm the happiest I've ever been with anyone. No drama or games. We're living together now. I found my country girl and I wouldn't trade her for the world. So yes it can work but eventually in person meeting is best.
     
  9. stash napt

    stash napt Member

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    At my age if it were not for the internet i would meet no sane like minded woman. Most 17 year old girls are emotional leeches. But then again most teenagers in general are....
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    you're going to be so disappointed when you hit your 20s...
     
  11. stash napt

    stash napt Member

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    Isn't everybody? haha.
     
  12. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Yes
     
  13. noela

    noela Members

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    if you do actually plan to meet in the end, and you eventually do -- then yes. it's definitely worth it.
     
  14. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    OP:

    Yes it can work out...........

    I met my man 9 years ago now through the interwebz. And tell ya we were long distance. He was in Australia I in Canada.

    He took the chance and came to Canada to meet me. Now lets just say he came and years later still together and I moved from Canada to Aus. add a few rugrats in the mix and ya.

    Condensed Version of my story lol but for some it can be the best thing ever.
     
  15. howlyourname

    howlyourname Member

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    i met my man online. i was skeptical as hell, but we were talking and never ran out of things to say, then spoke on the phone and there was nothing awkward. and it transitioned perfectly to real life. with that said, we were only talking for 2 or 3 weeks before we made the decision to meet. don't regret it at all. would i actively look for a partner online, though? not at all.
     
  16. Humperdink

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    If someone posts an honest profile on a dating site, and someone else honestly wants that type of person in their life, internet love is possible. If you are both honest online, it is not really that different from being honest off line. The problem is the internet makes it so easy to be dishonest. Another thing I saw in the few times I actually read ads such as on Craigslist is that people point out all their positive traits and none of the negative traits. So you are not getting an accurate description of a person, and chances are good when you meet them in person you won't be able to tolerate them.
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    so it's like a first real-life meeting.
     
  18. fess

    fess Member

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    My wife and i met online in a chat site for LBS (left behind spouses) whose spouses were MLC'ers...we got long great in chat laughed out loud a lot and found we had a lot of things in common. We were both brutally honest in the forum because you had to be to get any real help adn do your me work...this led to a great relationship and we met to talk, fell in love after several meets then got together and eventually married and are married 5 years now. i would definetly recommend it because you are falling in love witg the personality first not the physical appearances. Just be sure you are boht honest and talk a lot online chat and on the phone before meeting.....and exchange photos and have phone sex..:)-:)
     
  19. deleted

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    why you no meet people here?..
     
  20. Humperdink

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    Orison, I am wondering. You obviously have a thing for squirrels. Why are you trying to meet people?
     

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