I don’t cruise for cock or go to bars or any of that shit. I have been, and many times successfully, using the internet exclusively to find Married Cock to suck. Up until about six or seven months ago, I was happy with the ads providing a nice “cock in my mouth” ratio. But now? It’s a long streak of no-shows or trolls or guys who want to simply work their fantasies about cock and chat about it endlessly. This morning I woke up with an overwhelming urge to suck cock. I chatted with two guys who sent nice pics of their cocks and asked questions and so on. Both of them flamed out. So now the formerly reliable method of finding guys to give head to has turned into a streak of “no show” cock. Just a rant, guys. Thanks.
I have been so frustrated, especially through the pandemic, of all the flameouts, no-shows and dispassionate straight guys who did show that I finally recently succumbed and went back to a bathhouse, something I had done a lot of in the first 21 years of my cocksucking sex life. Then when I finally lost my gay virginity, finally inserting my cock into another guy's ass, a strong inner gay awakening happened that made me immediately stop all anonymous get-togethers in gay sex venues and just use the Internet to meet up with guys in each other's homes for more intimate connections. That was going great for three years until I started a turbulent relationship with a woman for three years. When that ended just before the pandemic hit, I was so excited to be able to get back to going full out having sex and perhaps more with guys. But the pandemic destroyed that. I want that connection and intimacy of knowing a guy and making love in each other's home. But the effort to find that now seems to be too great.
Hook ups from internet sites are terribly disappointing. I love to cruise but I am not into endless emails or text exchanges. I don't get into exchanging pics, either... I mean, if you want dic pics there are plenty of places to get them without getting one from me. Lots of hesitant players out there.
I decided to try the website BiSexual Playground. I have been a member five days now and have some initial thoughts, and guys most of them are negative. But as a newbie there I will get a chance. Anybody ever been a member at BiSexual Playground? And what do you think?
I have never heard of it... I have tried Sniffies recently - and I've had intermittent good luck with it. I met a guy there who has made 4 return visits to see me- he wants a blow job while he watches porn on his phone. I literally feel high when I am on my knees between his legs. I know he's straight (sort of) in a relationship that doesn't allow him to get the release he needs. I am glad to provide it - because, I feel I get almost euphoric from this. Back to the topic... ahem. A few other guys have suggested meeting but it doesn't pan out. I think it's a matter of persistence which pays off. good luck,fellow oral gods and godesses
The only guys I’ve had no-show were straight attached guys. Single and gay guys have never let me down. I’m sure the no-shows were worried about getting caught by the significant other.
Back when Craigslist was all the rage and healthy, I met guys on there. Three in a fairly short span of time. There were a lot of flakes that were no shows. But I think the no shows weed theirselves out because they just weren't meant to be. So I can't say I was ever disappointed.
Not necessarily....I go to an occasional sauna but get 90% of my hookups from Grindr, planet romeo and other more local sites. A lot of chaff n .timewasters sure......probably only 5% of the guys on there will actually meet.....but in that 5% ....mmm...entry hot guys. So if u start with that premise.......and use pictures... advertising works.....haha Simon
haha.. Simon, you've got what it takes to catch the man. LOL. I am back on the prowl last night again... part of me hates this and what it does to me as I search for an encounter. The other part is intrigued and fascinated by the process. So, heard about a spot and drove there - nothing... When I came home, I posted an ad on Double List - which is the new Craigslist of our world... I got two responses last night - only one went to repeated back and forth exchanges. He got frustrated because 1) he finally revealed that he can host, but he lives in a rural area that would be an hour drive for me and at 10:30 last night, after being awake, working all day, etc. I wasn't in the physical frame of mind to start my evening at midnight. He responded "everybody is a fake on here" I told him I am not a fake, I hear his frustration and it's not out of the question that I'd drive that far to meet him, but not at that time of night. This morning I got an email from him "hey, whats ur cock size?" Am I the only man who does not care about that? Is that really a determining factor? (suppose it could be, if you're on the extreme ends of either spectrum - too big or too small) And, I had another email in my box from a guy not too far from me who expressed interest but also expressed frustration regarding no safe place to meet. Yes, that's another huge deterent. I got to thinking about my age and how many more years I'll be playing this game... well, two factors come to mind... if I meet a solid partner I may stop... but as long as there is another man willing to engage with me, I suspect I will be playing this game.
I think most of us guys that are out there looking for sex with guys experience no shows, or guys that like the thrill of the pursuit but then chicken out when it comes time to commit. Unfortunately it’s part of the territory. I have had decent luck on the Silverdaddies site. It has resulted in a few friendships.
As attached and straight I've found it hard to find a random hookup. I can't host and the personals ads I find online when I travel don't line up. I could see me turning up if it all looked good. If I saw an image of a nice cock and the opportunity presents I would hope to be right there. First order of business suck the cock before I get cold feet. I'm hot to try but also know I'm nervous.
If I was actually looking, I suspect it would be harder for me. Because I want to be fucked, and people seeking oral are a lot more common.
I think there are guys who would fuck you. There might be straight guys who would fuck a guy in the ass if it means getting their jollies off. For me, if I was hard, maybe a little oral persuasion if I wasn't I could fuck the guy. If it's good enough to stick my cock in his mouth im open to his pleasure too. Saying that my preference is to try mutual oral and I'm wanting to be fucked given the chance.