Insult or compliment?

Shakespear "If young girls are pretty, they have the sense to know it."

 

whatever.

 

LOL The woman has every right to slap whoever is bothering her. Why are people up in arms? She slapped the guy.

 

So if you are bothering a guy.. does he have the right to hit you?
If something a person says bothers you, you let them know wihout any need for violence (yeah, slapping someone is violence) or you just walk away..
should we start slapping everybody that says something that offends us? she misinterpret the guy, I'm not saying she shouldnt have been offended, but she overreacted and the best way to deal with something that offended you is not slapping people.

 

Well, actually, your rights do not include the ability to go around hitting anyone you want. In fact, everyone has the right not to be physically assaulted in any way. If she'd called him fat, would it be okay for him to slap her? I doubt you'd think that was alright.

 

i just can't believe in this day and age anyone can feel okay with someone slapping someone else over a comment (taken wrong anyway).

 

Aye, the girl sounds like a bit of a headcase to me.

 

I've got to agree with that one. Even though you meant it as a compliment, I would probably get a little pissed if someone said that to me. Especially if I was as self conscious as this girl seems.

 

<<ha you got pwned>>

What does "pwned" mean?

 

"Right to slap whoever"? Right to physically assault then...Slaps, taps, punches, men, women, whatever...its physical, its violent, and they were virtual strangers

 

I don't think I can respond myself without risking it sound like a personal attack. So I'm just gonna agree with this person.

 

I think it's that society creates such a negative view of women and what they should look like that when u say full they picture fat and get pissed. Happens to the est of us...at least that's what I think.

 

<<Dude, one more thing...if you're ever in bed with a woman with a little extra to grab onto, try to refrain from actually grabbing anything. THAT pisses me off. The cooing while grabbing "I love it". I just wanna yell "Just hold me and shut the fuck up!">>

LOL I love it!! What a cool group of people on this forum....

 

Oh please. Next, you people will start telling me that a pinch or a tickle is physical assault because it was unwanted and unecessary according to some. The slap is not assault, and she has the right to defend herself if she thought the guy was a creep trying to dish out some emotional abuse her way. JMO.

Not like she should have kept kicking him while he was down on the ground here, people. But she has the right to react the way that she did after his comments. You can't control a person's reaction no matter how much you all think you would like to.

 

No one said anything about controlling someone's reaction. But you can't just hit anybody you want. That's a lot different than a pinch or a tickle, and like I said, if a man slapped a woman you wouldn't be so cool with it.

 

It's not like he was calling her some fat bitch, slut, whore, etc...
he was merly trying to compliment her figure.
hell, if we could go around slapping every tom, dick and harry who pisses us off there would be a lot of men who just don't want to come out of their houses at the risk of looking at some chick the wrong way. For all we know, some woman out there thinks, "hi," is an inslut and decks the dude in the face. It's not right.

 

If a man complimented me on my hourglass figure, I'd give him a big smile and thank him for being so nice. If he were, say, a bouncer in a bar and asked me for my ID, I'd jump in his arms and kiss him.

Though a pacifist myself, I think if a woman slaps a man in the face for a perceived insult, he should slap her back for indulging in such cliched behavior.

 

HUH ?

 

Yep.......

 

no. i would not be offended at all by that!
Women are supposed to have curvy hourglass figures!
We are just so warped in the head thinking that we all have to have little boy bodies like Kate Moss...that we forget what women are supposed to look like.
My guess is, this chick is just extremely insecure.