Honestly, the only connection I need is... do you wanna do it? I want to suck your dick; I want you to suck my dick. I'm not trying to marry you or be your boyfriend or any other that other biromantic stuff that I know is possible, but I have no interest in. Let's keep it simple! If I've learned nothing else, it's that if I were to depend on being attracted to a guy in order to have sex with him, I would never have sex with a guy. The connection is... lust. The connection is desire. You want to give and receive head and so do I and we're both here so let's do what we want to do. Really, how long is it going to take you to get to know me well enough to let me at your meat, hmm? Because, while you're looking for a connection or whatever motivates you to suck cock, I've already decided to do this with you and if I wasn't sure about you, we wouldn't be having this conversation at all. And since I can be impatient, I'd rather you not keep me waiting too long lest I lose interest in you. There's the hunt (and being hunted); there's the chase (and being chased); there's do you want to do this - and now would be a great time - or you don't, and the opportunity will pass you by. I keep saying that it's not rocket science... because it isn't; either you want to suck cock and get yours sucked or you don't.